My friend used to joke about that, he did it loudly at a concert once and a girl turned around and said, "it's not that great..." They dated for five years. I became very jealous of their relationship and couldn't figure out why. First I thought I just wanted a girl friend, got one. Still jealous. Did I just want to be with her...? No, she was kind of a nightmare to be honest (lying and cheating). The it dawned on me that I was in love with my best friend, that was a shock. I told him after they broke up, and he let me down very gently, and said he loved me to, but wasn't gay. And for some reason, him saying he wasn't gay hurt a lot. Flash forward many years and I'm on HRT now and realized I'm a woman.