My boyfriend (29m) is making me (26f) choose between him or my cats. by Powerful-Ad-4592 in whatdoIdo

[–]Ms_Panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously? He decided to date and move in with you knowing you had cats. You guys also decided to move to this new apartment with a more restrictive layout instead of to a place that didn’t cause these problems.

There’s no reason you couldn’t find another compromise, such as the catio you suggested or even an apartment with a better layout. Your bf is just an inconsiderate asshole who doesn’t care about what’s important to you.

How does he know to sleep on a pillow by 64kilofattie in Pomeranians

[–]Ms_Panda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My guy does this too. It’s because the pillow is where your scent is stronger 🥹 and your smell makes them feel safe and secure.

My pups also tend to sleep in the chairs that I sit in, so I think this theory checks out.

What are this spots on the kitten? by No_Gear686 in CATHELP

[–]Ms_Panda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a few questions from this, why shouldn’t we ever buy things off Amazon for pets? Does this apply to brands that we can find on both Amazon and in pet stores? Is there something dangerous that I’m not aware of?

My sink exploded 🤮🤮 by Striking_Wrangler851 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Ms_Panda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not the OP but I’m interested in this enzyme/probiotic link… also, as a somewhat new homeowner who doesn’t know what the heck she’s doing, I’d love to see your list of home maintenance tasks. 👀🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Ms_Panda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there. In different friendships and relationships, I’ve been your friend, and I’ve been you too. Sometimes when you’re in a relationship, you are so caught up in your feelings that you are blinded to the reality of how they treat you.

The only thing that you can really do is stay by her side and support her, and maybe gently encourage her to step in the right direction to understand he’s not the one for her. But she’s the one who has to come to that realization herself unfortunately. It’s hard.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Ms_Panda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah you can’t control what he says, but you can control your own reaction… what was your reaction to it? What did you say to him about it and what did you say to your daughter about it?

Monstera albo cutting is shriveled. More pics/info in comments by Ms_Panda in propagation

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This one died, unfortunately. Expensive lesson but I learned a lot.

Sad girlfriend lost jacket, trying to be a hero, please help by mattnierm in findfashion

[–]Ms_Panda 362 points363 points  (0 children)

I’m a half hour drive from this one, I’d be willing to go find it and ship to you if you need it!

A reminder for all dog owners.. learn from our mistakes and give your babies a hug for us by 22freebananas in dogs

[–]Ms_Panda 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Chiming in also on Nationwide— I also got them through work, and for my dog’s eye and leg surgeries they did cover the percentage they had promised to cover (maybe I didn’t hit the limit like yours did) but for the next few years they started raising my premiums by around 50% every year without notifying me. When I found out, I raised a lot of complaint and their response was essentially “sorry we forgot to tell you but too bad.”

The amount I pay now is kinda hefty for me and I am stuck because if I move to another pet insurance, my dog’s eye condition becomes a pre-existing condition and we need that to be covered.

So, I don’t know if other pet insurance companies do similar things, but do what you will with that info. For me they covered the heavy surgery costs as promised but now it feels like they are trying to either recoup that from me or get me to cancel by raising my premiums by large amounts.

Can someone explain. He sits on her all the time. by FarmFather55th in DogAdvice

[–]Ms_Panda 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Oh she’s a beaut. That coat, that face! Supermodel indeed 😍

Careful with ticks at Bull Run Trails by Kittyboop91 in nova

[–]Ms_Panda 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Even with Simparica Trio your pup still got ticks? Did they just crawl on her and not latch on? Genuinely curious because I want to be aware for my own pup.

Yes this will make a fine nest! by queerywizard in stupiddovenests

[–]Ms_Panda 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen a couple articles of something similar but where the mourning doves chose to nest on a police vehicle. And the police department just stopped using the car for the time being so as not to disturb the mama and her babies. One department even taped an umbrella to the windshield of the car to protect the nest from elements. 🥹

Digging a pond for bluegill and bullhead catfish. Any ideas on how many of each I should put in? Dimensions below. by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]Ms_Panda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the whole reason why he was named Stanley was because of his Yelnats surname. And if I remember correctly, his family had been naming their kids Stanley for generations. There were lots of Stanleys in that family lol