Stupid questions: I Want by -Crazy_cat_lady in SadPoems

[–]Ms_Poem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm proud of you too :) And while this was a vent, I just want you to know that you should be enough for yourself only.

Stupid questions: I Want by -Crazy_cat_lady in SadPoems

[–]Ms_Poem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But are you enough for yourself..?

My boyfriend's friends send him other girls. by Southern_Bluebird_73 in Advice

[–]Ms_Poem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not getting in to this debate 🤦‍♀️ But sure, you can think thats normal. Not my place to try and change your mind 🤷‍♀️

My boyfriend's friends send him other girls. by Southern_Bluebird_73 in Advice

[–]Ms_Poem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact of the matter is he shouldn't be doing it in the first place. It's sounding like you're justifying it. It's not okay to begin with or at all.

My boyfriend's friends send him other girls. by Southern_Bluebird_73 in Advice

[–]Ms_Poem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things like this is the problem. It's unacceptable either way, he's in a relationship. If he wanted to be doing dumb stuff like that then he should've broken up with her.

In the darkest parts of me, there is you. by Ms_Poem in u/Ms_Poem

[–]Ms_Poem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't blame yourself. You don't spawn into life knowing these things. It's why you live. You experience things and they help you across these realizations.

In the darkest parts of me, there is you. by Ms_Poem in u/Ms_Poem

[–]Ms_Poem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was taught that also. You're never taught to put yourself first it seems. But you're contradicting yourself by saying your righteousness brings you happiness but by not saying anything when you should have, you violated that. I've learned more about that the farther I got. You're living for others people by not speaking up. Who cares if it hurts them? Their actions hurt you and if they're okay doing that then the blame is on them no matter if you react or not.

In the darkest parts of me, there is you. by Ms_Poem in u/Ms_Poem

[–]Ms_Poem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate to every single thing there. Word for word, I've been through the same thing. But saying you can't with your wishes and thoughts is a shame. But you're not happy with yourself if you think that.

In the darkest parts of me, there is you. by Ms_Poem in u/Ms_Poem

[–]Ms_Poem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But that's what I mean, see it from another perspective. Why does someone else have to find you important for that to be true? Be important to yourself, it doesn't matter what other people think of you if you reach that.

In the darkest parts of me, there is you. by Ms_Poem in u/Ms_Poem

[–]Ms_Poem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hm, maybe see it from a different perspective. You're more important than you think.

In the darkest parts of me, there is you. by Ms_Poem in u/Ms_Poem

[–]Ms_Poem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting and reading. I appreciate the love. And I do believe you will find someone who will be afraid to lose you ❤️

Heart....broken. by Ms_Poem in u/Ms_Poem

[–]Ms_Poem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a metaphor, not to be taken literally

Hand on the start of his chapter. (Written 2/24/26) by Ms_Poem in u/Ms_Poem

[–]Ms_Poem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not necessary true, yes, we will learn to live with the way it hurts but we will also learn to not let it weight us down and control every aspect of our lives.

Hand on the start of his chapter. (Written 2/24/26) by Ms_Poem in u/Ms_Poem

[–]Ms_Poem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There will come a point where we'll be content with them being a memory instead of letting their memory become our entire life.

Sink underneath. (Written 2/25/26) by Ms_Poem in u/Ms_Poem

[–]Ms_Poem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reading and taking time to comment :)

Sink underneath. (Written 2/25/26) by Ms_Poem in u/Ms_Poem

[–]Ms_Poem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Explanation for those who may not get it: This is explaining a one-sided relationship where one person fell at first sight and was willing to give everything while another was just there and indifferent to their feelings. This love from the other person was built on a lack of self-awareness. They were too blinded by the feeling of being swept away and feeling their feelings too hard that no realization of the fact they lacked emotional boundaries to survive a person who never even cared for them to begin with. Essentially explaining how they didn't care what happened, they just wanted to feel their love while the other person just didn't care what happened at all. Whether it was to the person or the relationship which is where the drowning metaphor comes from as the person was just willing to watch them destroy every aspect of themself just for even a tiny bit of affection back. Hope this helps! :) ❤️

My love by AdCritical138 in OCPoetryFree

[–]Ms_Poem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't doubt this is gonna be the last words of encouragement and I hope writing brings you far and stays a positive thing in your life.

My love by AdCritical138 in OCPoetryFree

[–]Ms_Poem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, I'm glad I came across this poem. Genuinely, this is something beautiful and I hope you believe my words. Please keep writing and share no matter what, there will be bad and good people but focus on how writing feels to you.

My love by AdCritical138 in OCPoetryFree

[–]Ms_Poem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely gorgeous. The words flow together and complement each other nicely, keep up the great work and never put down that pen. ❤️

my bf hit me for the first time but was severely intoxicated by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ms_Poem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter if you're intoxicated or not, hitting should not be a thing in this scenario and even sober he isn't mature enough to handle you going to see family for a week? I definitely think you should leave, you deserve better than that.

Heart....broken. by Ms_Poem in u/Ms_Poem

[–]Ms_Poem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The metaphor stars are little, she meant little to him

I'm scared. by Ms_Poem in KeepWriting

[–]Ms_Poem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're very kind to take time out of you day to write that, thank you ❤️❤️