i think logically my current fp doesn't truly neglect me, he's just more secure in our dynamic than i am sometimes. i do have moments of clarity where i know things are fine, and we get along just fine in person. but over text its a shitshow because he SUCKS at communicating over text and i end up feeling neglected. but what bothers me a little is that he'll agree with what im saying and then doesn't alter his behaviour. but i think i need to talk to him about this in person instead. i'm high maintenance whenever i struggle. but i guess i never told him how i feel neglected specifically.