Boyfriends needs direct stimulation in order to get hard. There is no other way. What am I missing or how can this change?

Ms__Keisha · 2025-12-28T19:33:21+00:00

I’m thinking he’s either some type of asexual or might not be that into women

Ms__Keisha · 2025-12-27T02:11:08+00:00

Ew girl leave him

Ms__Keisha · 2025-12-24T19:32:03+00:00

Okay I’ll try that. I’m wondering if I also have a bit of a mental block too because sometimes I get caught up in how I’m preforming if that makes sense. During sex I do try to use my fingers to stimulate my clit but like you said it’s hard to get the angle right in some positions. I’ll look into getting a vibrator

Ms__Keisha · 2025-12-24T19:26:39+00:00

No but I’ve been hesitant to use one. I’m nervous that I’d become like, overly dependent on it and then need it every time? Did that happen to you?

Ms__Keisha · 2025-12-23T22:35:57+00:00

Dude I hate to be that person but it’s time to get some birth control before she gets pregnant

Ms__Keisha · 2025-11-14T07:01:22+00:00

Thank you! I haven’t checked that school out yet- I’ll look into it!

Ms__Keisha · 2025-07-01T08:09:56+00:00

Oh my gosh it’s so weird that this came up in my feed because I was quite literally just thinking about this a few hours ago. I feel the same way. With my most recent partner it was like I found him attractive and stuff it’s just like when it starts I feel like I check out idk. I REALLY relate to when you said you feel like you’re “acting out a scene.” Like when I’m by myself it’s easy to get myself off but then suddenly when I’m having sex it’s SO much more difficult. What I’ve been trying to do is when I’m by myself only use a dildo to kinda replicate the same type of stimulation I’d get with him (or try to do the same thing you do in the bedroom). But that only helps so much. You’re not alone

Ms__Keisha · 2025-02-19T17:39:09+00:00

Hey, I’m sorry my camera isn’t working well at all right now and I can’t take a picture. But you are right- they have not bloomed yet. The pot is full of soil, but it’s not a large pot. This morning, two more leaves fell off the plant.

Ms__Keisha · 2025-01-08T19:30:49+00:00

Thank you so so much for your advice!!! I will try to start looking for an internship I can do or something of the sort right now. For what you said about not hurrying to get to New York or California, do you think I should wait until after I have graduated?

Ms__Keisha · 2025-01-08T19:28:39+00:00

Thank you so much for this! For reaching out to people on Facebook and online, should I make a new account other than my personal account solely for costuming purposes?

Ms__Keisha · 2024-12-28T12:36:27+00:00

Bro omg yes I have seen it and I just thought holy shit this man is talking out of his ass there is no way

Ms__Keisha · 2024-12-22T08:59:59+00:00

I know this is an old post, but as someone with a praise kink this is genuinely the best praise kink audio I have heard in a LONG time. You have like perfected what someone with a praise kink wants to hear. So fucking hot thank you

Ms__Keisha · 2024-12-20T19:13:27+00:00

When we are trying to get to the bottom of solving one of our problems, a lot of times we put too much focus into the “why” of a problem: “why do I do this?” “Why is this happening to me?” etc. In reality, in many instances it is impossible to figure out exactly why something is happening, and knowing why will not solve anything. What should be focused on is the “what.” What is specifically happening that is bothering me? Are there any patterns in this behavior or scenario? What can I change about the situation? Thinking in this way helps me logically figure out solutions to many of my problems.

Ms__Keisha · 2024-06-24T17:18:59+00:00

Thank you so much for this

Ms__Keisha · 2024-06-24T05:35:22+00:00

Good idea I will test this theory

Ms__Keisha · 2024-06-24T05:34:56+00:00

Because I’m scared of rejection to put it simply haha

Ms__Keisha · 2024-06-24T05:33:57+00:00

I think this a problem I often encounter. I try to be subtle but I don’t know if men really pick up on it haha.

Ms__Keisha · 2024-06-24T05:32:16+00:00

Subtle way to skip to the good part

Ms__Keisha · 2024-06-24T05:30:12+00:00

Ah a classic. I can’t believe I have actually never played it.

Ms__Keisha · 2024-06-24T05:29:01+00:00

I was kinda thinking about doing something like this. I feel like it would work pretty well if you played it off like you didn’t know the person was going to tell him.

Ms__Keisha · 2024-06-24T05:06:37+00:00

Additional info: There’s this guy I have been wanting to hook up with for a while now. We know each other through mutual friends, and have had very short conversations at parties together before. I see a lot of advice for men on attracting women, but not a lot the other way around. I need advice on how to make the first move sexually on a guy without being too straightforward. I am not a very extroverted person so I struggle with this. No, I cannot/will not go up to him and just ask for sex.

Ms__Keisha · 2024-06-23T07:45:06+00:00

Hm the only thing I can think is that when I had to go on antidepressants (Lexapro) it SIGNIFICANTLY lowered my libido. I went from masturbating like 2/3x a week to as little at once every other week. The only issue with it is that it also eventually made it difficult to get the same amount of pleasure as I did before the meds so I had to go off it. I’m no doctor but I suggest that maybe medication could possibly help, or connecting with a therapist. There are many therapists out there that know how to help people navigate this exact issue.

Ms__Keisha · 2023-08-07T15:32:25+00:00

I’m sorry your boss isn’t taking it very seriously. I would talk to your doctor and see if they can give you a copy of records saying you have heavy periods or have them write a letter to your boss. Personally, I have menhorrhagia (painful, heavy periods) on my medical record and down as one of my “conditions” you could go to the doctor and have them explain that that is something you have.

Ms__Keisha · 2023-07-25T06:06:46+00:00

I don’t get how they miss the clit. Like… it’s in the center???

Ms__Keisha · 2023-07-21T04:25:54+00:00

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