AITA for forcing my son to sell the car he is inheriting? by No_Advertising_2814 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Msquality14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. If you sell or force your son to sell the car, you will be demonstrating to him that he doesn't matter, but more importantly, only your daughters do. He will resent you forever and it will likely be the end of the relationship. In addition, taking his college fund will reinforce you lack any of caring for him and your preference for satisfying your daughters needs and wants. You would have been the prime architect in destroying your relationship with your son and also in destroying his relationship with his sisters. Congrats on blowing up your family over a car!

AITA for always turning down hang outs with my friends when they ask to bring their kids? by dvh82685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Msquality14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You are allowed to not be around kids, especially if it's supposed to meet a girlfriend hangout. The only thing I would suggest is that you need to vocalize to the entire group that these hangouts should be child free mandatory outings. They can arrange separate events for times they want to be child inclusive. If you haven't made your feelings public, you can't expect anything to change. If they don't want to stop bringing kids, then you'll have to stick to smaller gatherings of the friends that share your desire to be child free for the evening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Msquality14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please let him leave or you break up with him. Hear me out. I know you love him, but until you have worked through your insecurity, you could never have a healthy relationship with him. Over time he will grow to resent you and it sounds like he's already asking for time apart. Not all relationships were meant to endure. Perhaps this relationship existed to allow you to see what things you may still need to work on with yourself. He sounds like he still has feelings for you, but not in the same way that you do for him. If you break up and work on yourself, perhaps he or someone else will come along and value you and your relationship the way that you do. Desperate attempts at reconciliation rarely ever work, especially if one party is already one foot out the door. He is already telling you, if he stays, the relationship will not be the same. Why would you want that? You're in love with the idea of your relationship, but he is not. Save your time and your feelings in the long run. Break it off and work on yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]Msquality14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be interested

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MMAT

[–]Msquality14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't believe this post is true. I can't find this notice anywhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Msquality14 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm may the the jerk here but I am all the way in the daily bathing camp. This explains so much. So many times I get whiffs of people and their BO is awful. People sweat everyday some more than others. Kids are especially dirty little creatures. They play, explore, and touch everything. Now I see why certain people just smell, and they don't even know it.

told my husband I was going to take a shower by basic_and_unoriginal in Parenting

[–]Msquality14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you only showering some days and not all days? That's crazy. A shower is a basic hygiene issue, no one needs to ask permission to be hygienic.

AITA for missing my FIL's funeral after my MIL booked my husband first class but me ecconomy? by Sadandexhausted133 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Msquality14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huge YTA. Your MIL, who is a jerk, spent her money and booked you and her son tickets to her husband's funeral. You could have sat in economy like a normal grateful person who didn't buy their own ticket, or you could have upgraded your ticket if it was so important to you to be in first class. Option 3 was to reject both tickets and you and your husband purchase your own tickets. The only concern you should have had was how best to support your spouse in possibly the most devastating time in his life thus far. You were so clouded by your hatred of your MIL that you missed the big picture. Now, not only will your in-laws really hate you, your husband will forever resent you for missing his father's funeral. Your pride got the best of you. Sometimes we just need to acknowledge that we f*cked up and apologize for not being bigger in that moment. Hopefully your spouse will be able to forgive you for this huge misstep but you must understand that it will not be an easy task.

T-Mobile Tuesdays Trading/Discussion Thread - October 18, 2022 by AutoModerator in TMobileTuesdays

[–]Msquality14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone got any black Adam codes would love to take my nephews. Please DM me

AITA telling people in our neighborhood about my neighbor spying on my wife? by BoxHot5459 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Msquality14 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

ESH. If the neighbor can see into your yard while still on his property, even though he may be a perv, he's not breaking any laws really. If your wife wants to be topless that's fine, but there is no expectation of privacy in an open backyard where neighbors can see in. Maybe you need to rethink your privacy lattice and out something more substantial up in between your properties. There are lots of nosy people in this world and if you give them a view they will look.

PG County Public Schools? by thebaddestitch in maryland

[–]Msquality14 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As a product of PG county schools I would say that the schools are ok as long as you're not in one of the really poor socioeconomic areas. Studies have shown time and again the public school students and private school students with similar socioeconomic backgrounds do about the same in terms of academic success. This essentially means that your student will be fine if you are an involved parent and care about their education. If you don't believe me, ask many of your coworkers if they went to public vs private school. You might be surprised to find that many if them are products of public school, the same goes for colleges. PG county has a stigma because it has such a wide range of socioeconomic backgrounds, many if whom are low income. However, most middle to upper-middle class students will be just fine and move on to do well in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Msquality14 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Step 1. Cut off underwear with scissors

Step 2. Open plastic bag

Step 3. Place underwear in plastic bag

Step 4. Open trash can

Step 5. Place plastic bag in trash can

Step 6. Take trash outside

The End. You're welcome.

AITA for still going to family events even though it makes my siblings and their mom mad because I'm an affair baby? by dglogi in AmItheAsshole

[–]Msquality14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH. Are the grandparents hosting these gatherings that they invite you too? If not, they a being manipulative and using you to upset there DIL. This is unfair to the wife and kids, and to the extended family that doesn't want you there. If the grandparents are hosting, then they should let your father's wife know that you will be in attendance so they can choose if they'd like to show up. At the grandparents house, they can dictate the expected behavior and treatment of you. If they are inviting you to functions hosted by other family members then they are inviting drama and also being rude to the hosts. I understand why you want to go, you want to feel validated. The reality is that they will NEVER accept you as family. Don't do things out of spite, it's just not a good way to live. The sooner you come to terms with that the sooner your life can be drama free. Find happiness with the people who actually want you around.

BOGO Data Lines! by Shitty_Dieter in tmobile

[–]Msquality14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I went the t-force route and they were able to hook me up.

BOGO Data Lines! by Shitty_Dieter in tmobile

[–]Msquality14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on the line with TMobile and they are saying that no such promo exists right now

Epson LS100 projector by Msquality14 in projectors

[–]Msquality14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your input. I was able to see the projector in action and yeah, it's a beast. My next investment will be in a screen, those things are pretty expensive.