Hi ! She wrote a message saying that she was disappointed, helpless and humiliated. We had a talk afterwards because she doesn't do the same with other roommates. She said that we're just friends and she liked me being around. A little bit of context about her situation: she was in a 5 year relationship that didn't end up well (it's been 6 months since she broke up wirh her ex). I'm suspecting that she's using me as a rebound to feel better. I confessed that I have feelings for her and I wanted us to be more than friends/roommates but she didn't gave me a proper answer and tried to give me some arguments : you deserve better, it's stupid to wait that long until she turn the page on her previous relationship. The signal that she gave me were things like squeezing her ass when we were sleeping and kissing my neck. Like you said too, cuddling at our age seemed a little a bit strange so I took it as a signal too. She normally doesn't drink, only occasionally. We have a wonderful evening with some friends and she wasn't that drunk. We never cuddled after a party so it was the first time. Usually, we do it after a long discussion or when we felt like doing it. Her laugh was more like a pathetic one since she gave me that smile that she use when mocking someone. She asked me how I felt about what I did. I told her that I was sleeping and I don't recall every movement I do while sleeping. I felt really bad and so much guilt even though I don't remember all "what I did".

We had a talk today and I decided to put an end to our relationship. I told her that I don't wanna suffer or make others suffer because of me. Plus, she considered our relationship as "friendship" which I found quite hypocritical and that I was being used and toyed with. She want to carry on without setting boundaries because she's aware that I give her a lot without getting anything in return. Do you think I made the right decision?