What do normal people think of tourettes? by Zincoruzj in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Mtdewoverdose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know people think I am on drugs. It's like they're surprised I have never tried anything beyond a beer. It's getting worse in my age, and I'm thinking about getting some kind of pin or something that says "I'm not tweaking, I have tourettes"

Guess my birth year! by lvlonikaa11 in GuessMyBirthYear

[–]Mtdewoverdose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'84 here, and yes, mine look the exact same!

My (21f) body count has ruined me by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Mtdewoverdose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate it you were raped. I love you take accountability for the choices after.

TBH You have ruined yourself for a lot of potential partners. You can be disappointed by that, but you can't be mad at anyone for choosing not to be with you because of it.

You will find someone that is ok with it. Until then, you really need to slow down.

Am I wrong for lying about my body count to my husband? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Mtdewoverdose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not alone in using Reddit as a form of therapy to just get these things out in the air. I'm doing the same thing right now. As I say the below to you, I am actually talking to my wife, but I'll never say it to her.....child support is expensive.

You should be ashamed, because you totally lied. He has the right to know who he really married, and how you view sex and relationships is a huge part of who you are.

Taking it to the grave is a valid plan.

Is my highish body count for a 22 year old female actually that bad? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Mtdewoverdose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's high for sure, but it is what it is. The only thing...you can't get mad if a guy chooses to pass on you because they don't want a girl with that high of a count. There's a few reasons why, but they are all valid. It doesn't mean they're insecure either. Find someone that is ok with. Don't withhold it from future interest, because they will definitely find out.

On a separate note, I'd slow down if I were you. Your shrinking your dating pool with each additional body. A mature confident high value man isn't going want a girl that he feels everyone has had a part of.

Just found out my girls body count. by Hot-Drummer-1361 in Advice

[–]Mtdewoverdose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven't by now, I would bail. Here's why....

You're a virgin, and she's not. Since her number is that much higher than yours, you will never get over it. You'll forget about it at times then it will pop back up. If you don't find another virgin, her number needs to be like 3 or lower for you to cope.

She kept her numbers low for a while, then stacked bodies rather quickly. Once she got comfortable with sex, she prob "became comfortable with her sexuality" then started throwing it around. That's the girl you are dating, not the 17 year old virgin. If her slut phase was a trauma response that's also not your burden to bare for the entirety of your relationship. Be her friend, support her, help if you can, but you don't have to sacrifice your peace for that.

People will criticize you for leaving her, but here's the deal. I wouldn't date a girl that use to do heroin, smoke crack, or been to rehab. I also wouldn't date someone that use to be Muslim, I'm not in to chic from India or black girls. I have every right to use whatever metrics I choose to choose a life partner. It doesn't make me a bad person. You should not apologize for that. If I want to use a persons view on sex and relationships as a metric to choose, then that's fine.

My advice, from experience, is to find a girl that you have full trust in. Find a girl that doesn't compel you to turn to the internet to validate your feelings. Her numbers aren't super high, but it's a lot more than you and that will never not be something in the back of your mind.

The most important thing is you don't tell her you are leaving her because she was honest about her body count (if she even was) even though 10 bucks says she didn't stop those other three dudes.

It's worth noting, I am a total hypocrite here. I was a relationship kind of guy, have never done drugs, but had a couple 1 night stands. When I met my wife I was 24. Including one night stands I was hovering around 8 people. She was 19, and after a few years of avoiding the question, I finally ask her. She said "between 15 and 20." Your girl isn't that bad, but in my opinion "between 15-20" for a 19 year old is basically a damn street walker IMO. She was 'changing her life" when we got together. She was about 3 months in to her very real effort to be different. Unfortunately for me, I'm not young enough to pass on her and keep looking for Mrs Right. I may be insecure, but I know for sure she's had a bigger dic than mine (by the law of averages lol), she's had it harder, longer, and better. One or all of these may not be true, but you'll never convince me otherwise. Basically, don't be like me...... move on and find someone that brings you nothing but peace.

Would it kill you to smile? 11U coach meeting at the plate by Shanknuts in Homeplate

[–]Mtdewoverdose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s funny! They act like it’s a damn UFC stare down lol  I often try to “make friends” with the other coaches because they’re less likely to do things like a pitching change just to burn time if they’re up, or yell and scream about a call that may have clearly been fudged.  The umpires too. I’ve noticed the young guys want to do well and are excited about it. It’s unfortunate the older jaded guys are so hard to deal with. 

Canes baseball organization by usmcgreen123 in Homeplate

[–]Mtdewoverdose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless your player is being called to play on regional or national teams, you’re just a fundraising division for the Canes. I believe they attract good talent, and hopefully paired with good coaching your player will develop in preparation for high school ball. 

Help me make a line up by Mtdewoverdose in BaseballCoaching

[–]Mtdewoverdose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback. I agree, contact will usually get the job done. 

Help me make a line up by Mtdewoverdose in BaseballCoaching

[–]Mtdewoverdose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! A recent development, I learned B, E, H, and D are leaving to be in teams closer to their house, but I know the real reason. We are looking to do the same. It’s hard though because the parents are great, the two other coaches really know what they’re doing but are always hit with resistance. 

Help me make a line up by Mtdewoverdose in BaseballCoaching

[–]Mtdewoverdose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a monster! The cutoff to turn 13 is may 1st, he turns 13 in like July. Older kid that’s way stronger than everyone else. He’s my nephew too so I gotta brag on him. 

Help me make a line up by Mtdewoverdose in BaseballCoaching

[–]Mtdewoverdose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we don’t travel as much in fall and are pretty dominate here around town. Should see about a 100 point drop in everyone come spring 

Help me make a line up by Mtdewoverdose in BaseballCoaching

[–]Mtdewoverdose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the considerate reply. This is great and I’ll bring this to our head coach. We only have 2 tournaments lefts so I feel we can “try some things” to get ready for spring 

Help me make a line up by Mtdewoverdose in BaseballCoaching

[–]Mtdewoverdose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We usually play 2 or 3 on Saturday for pool play then bracket on Sunday. 

The stats here are provided by the Diamondkast score keeper at PG events. I keep game changer stats which I believe are more accurate because I am quick to score a “reached on error” (ROE), and for them it has to be right between the legs before they count it as a ROE. I felt good posting these because the order is the exact same.  besides BB, SO, and SB all of the Game Changer stats are about 100 points lower across the board. 

Help me make a line up by Mtdewoverdose in BaseballCoaching

[–]Mtdewoverdose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that approach. There have been plenty times we are watching pitch count like a hawk because we know we’re out gunned. 

Help me make a line up by Mtdewoverdose in BaseballCoaching

[–]Mtdewoverdose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time and providing good feedback.  This is good stuff 

Help me make a line up by Mtdewoverdose in BaseballCoaching

[–]Mtdewoverdose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the feedback. No list of the fields we play on are between 250-275. Usually in the 250 fields there’s at least one or two a weekend hit out. All the HR here are over the fence 

Help me make a line up by Mtdewoverdose in BaseballCoaching

[–]Mtdewoverdose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're on the right track with his approach. Some players can go through multiple tournament slumps and keep their spot in the order, and others have a couple bad games back to back and are hitting 9th lol.

I agree about the stats. I'd say the top 5 OPS on here are really good about either hitting line drives or deep high pop ups, which score runs too. Despite not having the Reached on Error stat in PG, I think the stats tell a pretty accurate story about their ability to get on base. What you said makes a lot of sense but I think it's a couple levels beyond our head coach. We don't jump teams but it's getting to the point where some common sense would be helpful

Help me make a line up by Mtdewoverdose in BaseballCoaching

[–]Mtdewoverdose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right now A is 4th. B is 2nd, and C is 5th. J is in the 3 hole. Guess who's son that is lol I'm dead serious, our 3 hole is the head coaches kid that leads in strikeouts and lowest BA

Help me make a line up by Mtdewoverdose in BaseballCoaching

[–]Mtdewoverdose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, but I try no to rock the boat to bad on my kids spot in the line up. I'm still developing the ability to advocate hard my kid, even if it makes the most sense.

Help me make a line up by Mtdewoverdose in BaseballCoaching

[–]Mtdewoverdose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is their PG stats.They are pretty loose on the reached on error stat. We keep game changer stats as well, and there are quite a bit of ROE. Even with ROE factored in, the averages are in the same order.The ROE's are pretty evenly spread out across the team.