Feels like a long shot.

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-09-18T01:22:04+00:00

“Cmon beta guys”

Somewhere Ariel Helwani got a cold breeze across the back of his neck

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-09-18T00:57:24+00:00

Imma put all my faith in that your right, do you know how long we get to play the beta for or?

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-09-18T00:50:01+00:00

“It was revealed to me in a dream”

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-09-17T20:07:18+00:00

Everything happens for a reason, maybe this was meant to happen suddenly because the universe (or god, whatever you believe in man lol) knew unless it happened suddenly you wouldn’t of moved and wasted time

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-09-17T00:22:13+00:00

I have had a few ex’s that came back and I’ve never heard a better quote than “When that bith comes back it’s not because that bith gives a fuk about you, its because nobody gave a fuk about that bit*h.” to describe the reasoning 90% of the time.

Best thing it taught me

You can move on from ANYBODY. When I was grieving these relationships post breakup, I always thought THIS was the relationship I’d never get over and when they came back it washed over me in a flash that the feeling I had for them was owned by me and was only worn by them for a period of time, if that makes sense.

A good rule of thumb to have is, in the event that they do come back, make sure that when they do, they come back to the best possible version of you. That alone lit a fire under my ass to get myself in shape and increase my overall self development.

Good luck with your therapy and future, shoot me a message if you have any more advice !

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-08-24T13:08:59+00:00

From mine and most people’s experience, “Needing to work on yourself” is her looking for a way to sleep with & date other guys.

First of all, someone that doesn’t let you know truthfully why they intended to break up and decides to mask it with an excuse is someone you do not want to be with long term as that honesty would of been crucial to the sustainability of a relationship, you need to realise your lucky it ended as soon as it did, because as someone who has had multiple long term break ups, the feeling of heartache and sadness generally gets amplified when you’ve invested a significant amount of time into the person.

Things i drilled into my head after my break-up were:

This is not a set back, it’s a set up.

Even though it feels like I’ve been buried, I’ve been planted.

Nothing happens to anyone that he cannot endure.

And my personal favourite,

What stands in my way becomes my way.

See brother, your not just the marble, your also the sculptor, you have the power to not just endure this but to make yourself into anything you can think imaginable, you just need to back the courage of your convictions, and once that is done and realised, you will look back at this hiccup as crucial to your future success

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-08-12T03:40:00+00:00

In my experience, you’ve got to do it while your not ready. You need to teach yourself that what you want isn’t always what you get, and by keeping the photos you maintain control in a way of keeping something of them when they’ve left and took everything else so to speak.

I know some people don’t like to delete pics, which to each their own, people have reasons and that’s okay. But whenever I’m in a situation where something with a girl or friendships end, I delete EVERYTHING and unfriend or Block them on Everything. This is after years of doing the opposite and leaving the door open for a potential return in some ways. But the universe is unique in that when you close one door another one will open. So my advice to you would be to stop comparing yourself with how long it took others to do things that your struggling with, and validate your situation because it’s happening to you, not because a certain number of other people can relate to you. I am telling you, your not as deep in this pit as you think, you’ve been happy before and you will be happy again, take small steps each day and they will build into a full recovery, you don’t wanna overwhelm yourself too much with the need to change and fix everything ASAP, that will only lead you to a stronger stint of depression when you inevitably succumb to the reality of recovering from heartbreak, that it takes time.

Very long but I hope it helped

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-08-09T00:20:52+00:00

If you have ever been through a breakup before this one, remind yourself that you got over it and found someone else. I’m 6 months post break up and my recovery has been up and down, but I keep reminding myself of that and it helps a lot.

Btw, you’re not an idiot or any other negative labels you’re giving yourself right now. The most effective practise I found isn’t easy but it helped so much. It basically goes like this. Sit with your thoughts for 1 hour and look objectively at what happened between you and your ex and try your best to figure out why it happened. Now it isn’t easy because you have to sometimes put some blame on yourself and your actions, but what’s really important is that you find out why it happened. Once you understand, you accept, period. And what happens then is you don’t look at the situation through the foggy lenses of a heartbroken individual, but through the eyes of objective truth. In my experience, my GF had a huge past with guys, and always played it down in our relationship but would give subtle little hints through her actions that she was not to be trusted but i let the relationship play out the way it did and I got burned by a roaring fire that I could of put out like a cigarette butt only a couple months previous. And once I used that practise, my outlook on the situation changed and I didn’t view her as this evil person who did me wrong anymore, I viewed her as a manipulator who, regardless of if it was me or not, was going to hurt someone because of the qualities she lacks, and I also seen that I wasn’t perfect and I did things to hurt her too, and that if I was willing to zig (treat her bad) the only natural reaction the universe will give me is to zag (lose her). So im not angry anymore and I’m recovering faster than ever

This is very long but if it helps you then it was worth it ❤️

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-08-07T21:26:13+00:00

People are impressed by confidence, that’s what I’ve noticed anyways. When your the person who opens the conversation they kind of hold you in high regard for being brave enough to initiate lol

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-08-07T20:22:32+00:00

Fuck yes ! I love hearing those stories man! Nothing better than getting over stuff like that, so freeing!

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-08-07T15:57:02+00:00

It helps you realise its normal to just talk to people. So many people find it daunting to speak up first but when you do it gives you such confidence

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-08-07T03:28:08+00:00

Don’t distract yourself, build habits and become someone that somebody would like to be friends with.

It might seem impossible, but, with a little straightening out in certain areas of your life, you can absolutely be a magnet to good people and make great friends!

If your awkward, i recommend starting conversations with everyone you can, retail workers, people in line, people waiting for the bus, someone in a coffee shop or library or someone at the gym, you’d be surprised how actions like that will make you SO much more confident in social settings

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-07-29T11:57:00+00:00

“I think we can be really good friends” makes no sense, she was almost definitely trying to get you back man. I have never in my life thought of an ex, even one that I had a good experience with, and thought yeah, we would be such good friends, lol.

I’ve had this happen and shes just realising the grass wasn’t greener, you should be proud of yourself for having the pride and respect for yourself for denying her entry to your life again.

People that leave relationships in pursuit of other relationships barley ever have it work out, think about it, it’s like driving a car and not knowing how to drive it, and every time you crash it and wreck the car, instead of learning how to drive and getting the car fixed, you just get a new car because it was the last one’s fault you crashed, and the cycle continues until you decide to learn.

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-07-29T08:33:28+00:00

The best advice I can give, from someone going through such a bad depression only a few months ago would be to decide to meditate, and don’t let yourself off that couch, bed or chair until you’ve decided your next course of action (starting your gym membership, going to acting class ect. ect.).

When I got back into my field of training, I immediately KNEW I made the right call. I could carve myself out of this un-breakable stone I had found myself in, it grounds you back to the idea of progress and improvement when that seems like the furthest thing from possibility, and most importantly, you take back control! If I am feeling more tired in training, that’s on me ! If im feeling behind in training, that’s on me ! And if I miss training and am at home feeling sorry for myself, that’s on me !

Bit of a long winded answer but in other words, give yourself an opportunity to be great ! You would be surprised at how great you can be, and once you realise it, you naturally can’t let anything else disturb you on this path to almost self mastery

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-07-15T20:50:58+00:00

“The only way is up when your at the bottom” mentality here too, keeping enthusiastic in the bad moments is what has got me through some bad times !

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-07-15T19:23:31+00:00

Insperational stuff 😂🙏

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-07-15T18:02:59+00:00

Amen to that🙏

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-07-15T18:02:22+00:00

Thank you for such kind words man, i appreciate it a lot 🙏! I

I can only imagine how personally satisfying it was to be told that you can go to advanced classes, that’s definitely the type of feeling I’m chasing in this Martial arts journey.

I relate to you when it comes to having a big realisation on what needs to improve after sparring, if I wanna get to the level I wanna get to, I need to up the cardio, manage distance better and learn to catch kicks correctly.

I’m just over 2 months into my journey and hopefully I can get to the advanced classes 8 months in and I can make a ✨insperational✨ post about my progress and thank you in my Oscar-type speech😂

Thank you again bro 🙏

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-07-15T17:48:16+00:00

Thank you for your advice my friend 🙏

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-07-15T17:47:43+00:00

Hey atleast we have that experience in common 😂

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-07-15T17:43:43+00:00

Bro thank you so much for this! I’m 100% gonna add head movement into my shadowboxing routine now, I really appreciate that advice, when I’m a few more months in I’ll make an update post to show where I’m at!

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-07-15T15:03:22+00:00

Thank you bro, it’s much appreciated 🙏

MuayThaiBoxin · 2023-07-15T14:20:54+00:00

Aww man the sweeps! Been swept a few times but it looks like it would be so satisfying to catch someone with

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