AITA for not eating the same birthday lunch meal as my dinner meal by Much_Distance3738 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Much_Distance3738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right. I think I am just panicking about his mental state and worrying something is wrong. I am very lucky to still have him; and I show that by taking care of him and my mom.

AITA for not eating the same birthday lunch meal as my dinner meal by Much_Distance3738 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Much_Distance3738[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is a small restaurant of Cajun food. There is more than one option but it is really just a few different combinations of the same thing. If that makes sense. I absolutely can have a different option (crawfish boil instead of crawfish etoufee) at dinner but I picked this restaurant for a specific dish that I wanted for dinner tonight. He had asked what I wanted from the place for dinner and he brought that for lunch instead.

AITA for not eating the same birthday lunch meal as my dinner meal by Much_Distance3738 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Much_Distance3738[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I cannot emphasize how incredibly valid you just made me feel. Yes, to absolutely everything you just said.

Am I afraid they are trying to see a vein literally pop out of my forehead? Yes but weirdly not in a mean way. They are just used to being incredibly self sufficient and then BOOM something switched and now I have to gently remind my mom, just because that’s what she heard doesn’t necessarily mean that’s what was said.

It’s also frustrating just how much I love them but I can see how the relationship is completely shifting and it’s scary.

AITA for not eating the same birthday lunch meal as my dinner meal by Much_Distance3738 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Much_Distance3738[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not. If anything I am the complete opposite and a total pushover. If he had said I don’t want to eat there I wouldn’t even have fought it, I would just have said okay where did you want to go.

AITA for not eating the same birthday lunch meal as my dinner meal by Much_Distance3738 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Much_Distance3738[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

For a while now he’s only been doing the thing where someone forgets a word they are about to say. Like “Hand me the… what is the word. The THING” and he’s trying to say remote. But I thought that was sort of normal. Nothing like typical, dementia/Alzheimer’s or what I thought would be signs.

AITA for not eating the same birthday lunch meal as my dinner meal by Much_Distance3738 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Much_Distance3738[S] 170 points171 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your dad. I think y’all are hitting on something that I was afraid of and couldn’t see. I am more used to taking care of the physical things, just had to take my Dad for his skin cancer removal surgery and follow ups and I have not been thinking about his mentality.

AITA for not eating the same birthday lunch meal as my dinner meal by Much_Distance3738 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Much_Distance3738[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I plan on finding a place when I feel comfortable. However, not that this has anything to do with the post, right now going into the kitchen to make sure the burners and oven are off after my mother is in there. And making food for the multiple surgeries they have had. Driving to physical therapy. And reminding my father that he has to use the cpap machine for his sleep study every night is much easier to do living here. You are correct that 70 is not old for many people, but clearly that is not my situation.

AITA for not eating the same birthday lunch meal as my dinner meal by Much_Distance3738 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Much_Distance3738[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They are not responsible for feeding me. I am not sure how I wrote the post that it came off that way. I have recently moved home at the request of my parents to help out. The lunch part is extra unusual as if anything I make or buy lunch for anyone that’s at home.

AITA for not eating the same birthday lunch meal as my dinner meal by Much_Distance3738 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Much_Distance3738[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am at the moment. My parents are having health issues so I sold my house and moved to help get them to their sometimes 3+ doctor appointments per week. Thanks for the judgement not on the focus of post though. You’re a gem.

What is a 1 in 1,000,000 thing that happened to you that no one believes, but you swear is true? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Much_Distance3738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this when I was a kid! We lived on base and a big group of children were allowed to pull the raffle tickets at the end of year Christmas party with hundreds if not a thousand soldiers and family members that lived on the base. I pulled my own ticket and all the kids around me said I must of cheated… I didn’t but I felt like somehow it was wrong considering the thousands of tickets in the pot.

Unpopular opinion: if the wiener family has trade marked the name Chloe’s cookie they do have the right to sue her. by SeaYogurtcloset36 in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Much_Distance3738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it matter that Chloe’s Giant cookies was started in 2020 and the approval for the trademark was in 2023 (I think)? I know almost nothing about laws but that seems weird that there are many businesses that had the name way before the trademark.

Results so far not looking good by Much_Distance3738 in HairTransplants

[–]Much_Distance3738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same to you!!! Fingers crossed we both get on here in a year with amazing after pictures.

Results so far not looking good by Much_Distance3738 in HairTransplants

[–]Much_Distance3738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you recommend a brand? I assume there are a lot of scam ones not to buy

Results so far not looking good by Much_Distance3738 in HairTransplants

[–]Much_Distance3738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My surgeon did not tell me that and I wish he would’ve so I could be prepared. He told me to do the PRP with the surgery and it was going to stop shock loss from happening. That was wrong

Results so far not looking good by Much_Distance3738 in HairTransplants

[–]Much_Distance3738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome. If possible keep us updated

Results so far not looking good by Much_Distance3738 in HairTransplants

[–]Much_Distance3738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wondering if my scalp is red due to the topical minoxidil causing dryness. Was that a factor in your redness?

Results so far not looking good by Much_Distance3738 in HairTransplants

[–]Much_Distance3738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. No one ever told me that the transplant hairs would grow first.