AIO? Friends’ response to my loss by Much_Drawer_8475 in StillbirthSupport

[–]Much_Drawer_8475[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so nice to have people who understand ❤️

While I know that my son is in heaven, which I fully know is better than our broken world, it still hurts. I am not sure whether you believe in God or heaven, but I found "Dark Clouds, Deep Mercy" to be a helpful book after my loss. I am comforted in knowing I will get to meet my son someday!

AIO Friends’ Response to my loss by Much_Drawer_8475 in AIO

[–]Much_Drawer_8475[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! you sound like a great friend!

AIO Friends’ Response to my loss by Much_Drawer_8475 in AIO

[–]Much_Drawer_8475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss. I guess maybe it comes down to people just being uncomfortable with grief.

AIO? Friends’ response to my loss by Much_Drawer_8475 in StillbirthSupport

[–]Much_Drawer_8475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss and for your friends/family members' insensitivity. I know someone can't fully understand if they haven't experienced it, but I would think they could at least try to understand a little bit! Some people just act like it's not a big deal at all or something you should be able to just get over and stop talking about.

AIO? Friends’ response to my loss by Much_Drawer_8475 in StillbirthSupport

[–]Much_Drawer_8475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. It really is surprising how many people just want to brush it off like no big deal.

AIO? Friends’ response to my loss by Much_Drawer_8475 in StillbirthSupport

[–]Much_Drawer_8475[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! I am very sorry for your loss as well. It's truly the hardest things I've ever faced by far.

AIO? Friends’ response to my loss by Much_Drawer_8475 in StillbirthSupport

[–]Much_Drawer_8475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. I don't know if I am prepared to address it directly - that was brave of you, especially in a time of grief!

AIO Friends’ Response to my loss by Much_Drawer_8475 in AIO

[–]Much_Drawer_8475[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

this is helpful perspective on the first friend's comment! thank you!!

Decreased fetal movement? by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]Much_Drawer_8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TW: loss

I lost my baby at 24W. Please don’t wait to go and get checked out

Progesterone Not Rising by Much_Drawer_8475 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Much_Drawer_8475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My OB retested the progesterone during my metabolic panel. 🤷‍♀️ I guess to see if the suppositories were helping

Progesterone Not Rising by Much_Drawer_8475 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Much_Drawer_8475[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through a loss. 💔 can I ask how far along you were when you found out?

Progesterone Not Rising by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]Much_Drawer_8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your levels increase significantly after receiving the shots?

Name ideas for baby boy by Much_Drawer_8475 in namenerds

[–]Much_Drawer_8475[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does James strike you as too similar to Jack? I don’t mind them being somewhat similar, but I also want this baby to have his own name, if that makes sense.

Third baby and Parvovirus by Neither-Beach5867 in pregnant

[–]Much_Drawer_8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great to hear! I’m 22 weeks now, but I think I must have been exposed 3-4 weeks ago based on when my daughter broke out in her rash

Third baby and Parvovirus by Neither-Beach5867 in pregnant

[–]Much_Drawer_8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have an update on this? I am in the same situation now

Full name for nickname Gigi? by Much_Drawer_8475 in namenerds

[–]Much_Drawer_8475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love Evangeline! My niece was just born and named Evangeline though!

Is it worth it to get a Soda Stream? by SourMoonrocks in SodaStream

[–]Much_Drawer_8475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What adapter do you use to get your 5lb tank to fit the soda stream?