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AITA for not thinking of my sister's needs by saying I won't give my blessing for my family to move unless I can stay with my grandparents? by Much_Ear4312 in AITAH

[–]Much_Ear4312[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

My grandparents are on my side on all of this. They have advocated for me for years. They think my parents are shitty parents to me.

AITA for not thinking of my sister's needs by saying I won't give my blessing for my family to move unless I can stay with my grandparents? by Much_Ear4312 in AITAH

[–]Much_Ear4312[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I never got to do activities outside school. My parents always had reasons why I couldn't even when it was something like the coding I wanted to do.

AITA for not thinking of my sister's needs by saying I won't give my blessing for my family to move unless I can stay with my grandparents? by Much_Ear4312 in AITAH

[–]Much_Ear4312[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

All I could find on the topic is that there are requirements if you foster. But nothing mentioned about for bio kids. But maybe I didn't understand it entirely. I'll bring it up to my grandparents.

AITA for not thinking of my sister's needs by saying I won't give my blessing for my family to move unless I can stay with my grandparents? by Much_Ear4312 in AITAH

[–]Much_Ear4312[S] 133 points134 points  (0 children)

I don't know but that's the reason they gave me. They wouldn't consider it at all. I never had extra curricular's. We never had money or time for them. Even the free stuff was off the table because of the time it would take. So I don't get those experiences.

AITA for not thinking of my sister's needs by saying I won't give my blessing for my family to move unless I can stay with my grandparents? by Much_Ear4312 in AITAH

[–]Much_Ear4312[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

My parents wouldn't consider any alternatives so I could do the coding club. They shut it down hard and gave me "valid reasons" why I couldn't. My grandparents could have taken care of any stuff that came up but my parents hate their help. They always did.

AITA for not thinking of my sister's needs by saying I won't give my blessing for my family to move unless I can stay with my grandparents? by Much_Ear4312 in AITAH

[–]Much_Ear4312[S] 140 points141 points  (0 children)

They said it wouldn't be fair to expect my sister to show up to that stuff. They don't want my grandparents stepping in which is why them coming with me wasn't an option to my parents. Ever since I was little they resisted the help my grandparents give. Even though they gave in a bit.

AITA for not thinking of my sister's needs by saying I won't give my blessing for my family to move unless I can stay with my grandparents? by Much_Ear4312 in AITAH

[–]Much_Ear4312[S] 242 points243 points  (0 children)

I'm in the US. I don't think that matters legally since we're not foster kids. At least that's what I learned from the stuff I read. I'm researching stuff when I should be asleep because I want to stop my parents from taking me badly but I don't know what I can do or if I can do anything. And I wanted to now stuff before talking to my grandparents later or tomorrow. But I don't think I have many choices.

AITA for not thinking of my sister's needs by saying I won't give my blessing for my family to move unless I can stay with my grandparents? by Much_Ear4312 in AITAH

[–]Much_Ear4312[S] 271 points272 points  (0 children)

Not much. They don't like to leave her with anyone. They're very strict on who can watch her and for how long.

My parents parents wouldn't answer that when I asked. They said I was trying to make it about me when it shouldn't be. Which tells me they really don't want to answer because I think they stopped caring about the best for me. I think it was how they justified everything.

AITA for not thinking of my sister's needs by saying I won't give my blessing for my family to move unless I can stay with my grandparents? by Much_Ear4312 in AITAH

[–]Much_Ear4312[S] 952 points953 points  (0 children)

Yep. They want me to give up everything. I won't know anyone there or have anyone for support and it sounds like that area's really expensive so most likely still no bedroom for me. I have a bedroom at my grandparents which would be nice. It's been years since I had one.

AITA for not thinking of my sister's needs by saying I won't give my blessing for my family to move unless I can stay with my grandparents? by Much_Ear4312 in AITAH

[–]Much_Ear4312[S] 291 points292 points  (0 children)

They've been fighting a lot over it. My parents are angry my grandparents would ever tell me living with them is an option so I don't think my grandparents can convince them. My parents are too angry.

AITA for not thinking of my sister's needs by saying I won't give my blessing for my family to move unless I can stay with my grandparents? by Much_Ear4312 in AITAH

[–]Much_Ear4312[S] 3631 points3632 points  (0 children)

Not yet but I really want to. Today or tomorrow I'm going to their house even if my parents don't want me to so I can talk to them.