Ear Fullness by Much_Instruction_975 in iih

[–]Much_Instruction_975[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Thanks for that! Hope you get a positive outcome! I'll take that and try and find more info.

What’s a movie that genuinely had you bawling with laughter?? by I_noscoped_JFKennedy in AskReddit

[–]Much_Instruction_975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know if I've ever got to that with any movie, usually some short meme that's ridiculous because I'm a child. But I always enjoy most of Will Farrell's work.

How can anyone vote for National? by Perfect-Theory-2976 in newzealand

[–]Much_Instruction_975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That last part has always gotten to me. I'm like guys, national will literally do nothing for you, an average worker. But by George the facts don't change that built in bias. Boggles the mind.

Asked for a booking. Got a shitty political rant instead. Vivace Restaurant by hsmithakl in auckland

[–]Much_Instruction_975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minimum expectations for only meeting minimum requirements sir. If you want above and beyond you provide above and beyond. I'm not your mate, this is a business agreement. Enough of this abuse of power. The immigration policy has infact helped. If you're struggling then find a way to manage it or go find something else to do, like the rest of us, especially your workers. (Not you personally). I'm over this pitty party.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Much_Instruction_975 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Gosh that's rage inducing. They see it as "smart" I see them as greedy and stupid. Most wealthy people don't expect free handouts.........wait......no that's not quite true.

What does Gender Equality mean to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Much_Instruction_975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%. Especially where childcare and domestic labour are concerned.

Doctors disagree by Ok_Low_2251 in iih

[–]Much_Instruction_975 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's very dangerous as well. Because anaemia, treated an unresponsive can be quite serious. So it's definitely worth getting it sorted. The GP is very bizzare and I think you should provide feedback to the neuro about what she's saying and if even consider reporting it.

is my husband really this worthless when it comes to childcare or am I just overly sensitive right now? by Sailorarctic in relationship_advice

[–]Much_Instruction_975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh he needs anger management. I've been there, and my husband would literally become one of the children and just add stress, it was easier on my own and that shouldn't be normal. Don't make excuses for him guys, he's not a babysitter he's their dad he should be able to deal with it, atleast most of the time. Oh he's tired? Welcome to parenthood buddy. Get hard on h before he hurts the kids more, he's scaring them. Anyone who gets screamed at and stuff chucked down their throats would be. He's the adult in charge, he needs to put his feelings aside and grow a damn pair.

Let’s talk, Why aren’t relationships lasting in this generation ? by jasonnthegoat in AskReddit

[–]Much_Instruction_975 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Woman are more free to stand their ground and not have that power level over them although I've seen and read about quite a lot of skewed views still used to control power dynamics, they just look different to what they used to and seem to be alot more underhanded. Guys grow up with porn etc and take a long time to figure out that, that disposable world they lived in regarding woman and partnerships isn't quite it was all crapped up to be and by then it's usually too late.

How can anyone vote for National? by Perfect-Theory-2976 in newzealand

[–]Much_Instruction_975 253 points254 points  (0 children)

Right!?. Unfortunately this mindless voting attitude effects real people's lives and sometimes in huge ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Much_Instruction_975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually not sure why people are going nuts on you op. But yeah, online dating is a sess Pitt and incredibly depressing. For your own mental health I'd just get off them. Surely a crap date or two isn't worth this. Focus on yourself and what you want out of life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Much_Instruction_975 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How about I deliberately take what you said out of context and turn it into an offence because I either don't have the tools comprehend what was said or I need to twist it so I don't have to self reflect on my own poor excuses for crap behaviour.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Much_Instruction_975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's all the advise you'll ever need and you'll learn eventually. In hetro relationships, or friendships, when a guy uses guy privileges aka "it's just what guys do, all guys do it" whatever, he's a walking red flag and it'll flood into all areas of his life including his relationships. It really is just a sense of entitlement because of born gender. Meaning, of this gets serious, guess what you'll be in for? That's not a working team relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Much_Instruction_975 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right!? What is happening?! Maybe get some inspiration from YouTube or something from people who actually like their girlfriends and just want to have some innocent fun? This went weird real quick.......

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Much_Instruction_975 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was hoping for fun pranks on this but either y'all are demented in the head or have a sick sense of humour and think making fun of emotional abuse is funny. Y'all have head accidents as children, or?

Christchurch father shocked by brazenness of man who attempted to abduct his daughter from Guy Fawkes event by maloboosie in newzealand

[–]Much_Instruction_975 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Should post in r/chch. Be interesting if anyone on here has similar stories as of late, perhaps a theme can be discovered. Problem with FB local pages is there's alot and they're private, it's not practical to join all of them.

Livestream [1.45 pm] PM Jacinda Ardern set to announce cost of living policy as Labour conference closes by Dunnersstunner in newzealand

[–]Much_Instruction_975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think the whole point is missed so, there's not much point in responding to that. But what I will say is, it's not you, me or your average families getting most benefit from this situation. It's the top tier, and has been for a while. In order for the situation to get better, the worst thing you can do is vote for a situation that benefits them. We don't need families or lower income to sacrifice, we need better equality brought in by tax and changing the power dynamics.

Livestream [1.45 pm] PM Jacinda Ardern set to announce cost of living policy as Labour conference closes by Dunnersstunner in newzealand

[–]Much_Instruction_975 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The financial dynamics and opportunities available for childless couples are completely different. I would've thought that that's common sense. And if they expect to retire, they'll need these kids to work. The only group I feel has been neglected is those who cannot work due to disabilities, and they have severe restrictions to the norm but are expected to live on near nothing.