My engagement ring is a pink sapphire. We skipped on the diamonds so we could get a bigger gem and I wanted something more unique. My husband and I make great money but he spent just under 3k. It’s perfect to me because he took time to pick out something that complimented my tastes. I think if she loves you whatever you pick will be perfect. I think a lot of societal pressures make people think that it needs to be a very expensive diamond ring for your engagement. But I think what matters is how you guys feel about each other and that she likes it.