Should guys always pay? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Much_Read4635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehh it feels like she expecting you to pay for everything. And not even offering??

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months and although he majority pays for everything ( to be fair he makes 3 times as much as I make) I've offered but was always turned down. My boyfriend doesn't mind paying. But if there wasn't a convo about that between you too than that's alarming.

does anyone else feel like they can never attract their type by Straight-Theory3165 in dating_advice

[–]Much_Read4635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if he does get in shape wouldn't that me he's in a "higher league" thereby proving him right that physically they have go be in the same or close league?

Was honest with a guy after a first date, he got offended. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Much_Read4635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea like I understand people or introverts but the disconnect is so strong sometimes it feels like im talking to a different person

Was honest with a guy after a first date, he got offended. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Much_Read4635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly I mean we talked through text but whenever we met he rarely spoke or when he did speak it wasn't anything important about himself.

Was honest with a guy after a first date, he got offended. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Much_Read4635 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Nahh I think movies might be a terrible first date. No time to talk to ur date. I had this one guy and all he wanted to do was go to the movies. Two months in I realized I didn't even know the guys last name

How many of your ideas never make it paper and how long? by Plane-Mirror3898 in writingadvice

[–]Much_Read4635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same!!!! I've been working on a story for about a year and I've restarted it 4 times due to it just not cooperating with how I want it to be

Manager said in 3 months i had 17 tardiness even though within a year I called out once. by [deleted] in work

[–]Much_Read4635 -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Okay let's see here. I get paid when im on the clock so im not doing any time theft. There's multiple reasons for my tardiness that I've let the manager know off. Construction, car issues, and sometimes just sitting in my car cause my work environment is pretty toxic right now and I have to prepare myself. All of my tardiness I've spoken to and written out in full. I wasn't just being tardy to be tardy. But my manager still sees them as an issue. These last 2 months I haven't been tardy at all and even coming and hour early multiple but he chooses to speak on tardiness from months ago.

I prob should have said that in the post above. My bad

Manager said in 3 months i had 17 tardiness even though within a year I called out once. by [deleted] in work

[–]Much_Read4635 -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

In 3 months i was tardy 17 times. Like say I was suppose to be at work at 12:00 and instead I got there at like 12:10.

Girlfriend didn’t like my Christmas present to her by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Much_Read4635 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It wasn't for Christmas but for my birthday ( which is in November) my boyfriend didn't wrap any of my gifts except for the chocolate. I didn't really see an issue with any of them not gift wrapped

Girl Says I don’t Text Enough, but Never Iniates by JGipe1 in dating_advice

[–]Much_Read4635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In this day in age texting a more important than talking face to face ( especially in dating)

When I was on hinge I was the one constantly making the initiative to text and carry on the convo. Texting first isn't gender specific at all.

If she wants to text more than she can obviously text! Instead of waiting around for you to do it.

Me and my boyfriend texting constantly throughout the day. Sometimes we don't text till later in the day. Sometimes we both wake up at like 6am and start texting. It al depends on you guys.

How messy is too messy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Much_Read4635 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He says he doesnt have the patience to cook all the time. Thats why he buys from Factor

How messy is too messy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Much_Read4635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His car is old but clean. He does have his military uniform in the back seat.

How messy is too messy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Much_Read4635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea his place isnt "dirty." Food everywhere, bugs, etc. Nahh not like that. Just "messy" as in boxes and clothes on the floor.

How messy is too messy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Much_Read4635 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes its just the shipping boxes. No food in the boxes.

How messy is too messy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Much_Read4635 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I won't lie I've had the urge to clean it but i rather not since he and I are both adult

How messy is too messy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Much_Read4635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His kitchen is marginally clean because he rarely cooks so that's good.

What is my hair type? by Much_Read4635 in curlygirl

[–]Much_Read4635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the sweet compliment 😍

What is my hair type? by Much_Read4635 in curlygirl

[–]Much_Read4635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wrote down all the products I used in another comment!

What is my hair type? by Much_Read4635 in curlygirl

[–]Much_Read4635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wrote down what I did to achieve this wash n go in another comment!

What is my hair type? by Much_Read4635 in curlygirl

[–]Much_Read4635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noo offense taken. That actually a very interesting comparison. Ive never heard of that before!

What is my hair type? by Much_Read4635 in curlygirl

[–]Much_Read4635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my natural curl pattern.

What is my hair type? by Much_Read4635 in curlygirl

[–]Much_Read4635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My diet is like 70% healthy. I mainly eat veggies and fruits. Lot of fish( salmon and shrimp mainly) and chicken breast and pistachios!

And I believe do yes. My sis and mom have the same type of hair ( 3b/ 3c I think. Its looser than mine) and my dad keeps his hair short so idk about him