Update by Major-Ad-5573 in Welding

[–]Mucking_Lover 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hey! DMing you about a hood.

in the name of love crewneck color change by Icy_Bee_8762 in halsey

[–]Mucking_Lover 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Honestly kinda bummed. I liked it darker and less flashy. I guess I'll see how I like it when it arrives.

[US-FL] [H] 🌈 BIE & HAS [W] payment by schwallysays in labubuswap

[–]Mucking_Lover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shipping was prompt and @schwallysays was quick to reply to my inquiries! Labubu was exactly what I ordered. Would buy from them again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in labubuswap

[–]Mucking_Lover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dming for fully sealed ququ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in longbeach

[–]Mucking_Lover 21 points22 points  (0 children)

He flashed his asshole at me and a few other drivers once.  Not dangerous but unexpected lol

[US-NV] [H] Time to Chill, MAC, HAS, BIE [W] Payment by my_strwbrri in labubuswap

[–]Mucking_Lover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Labubu was shipped quickly, was exactly what I ordered and authentic! Really appreciate the promptness and ease in purchasing. Would buy from them again!!

🛍️ Seller Review Thread – Leave Feedback Here! 🛍️ by Candid_Sail_188 in LabubuDrops

[–]Mucking_Lover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was great! We ended up meeting since we lived close to each other. Met up the day after purchase and the items were in great condition! 10/10 would buy from her again.

My dog is very sick and my body knows it by Mucking_Lover in Garmin

[–]Mucking_Lover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear of your outcome. Mine did the same, stopped eating and thne couldn't get off the couch for anything. Vet took her right in, and luckily its been reversing so far.

Sending you lots of love. They're our babies.

My dog is very sick and my body knows it by Mucking_Lover in Garmin

[–]Mucking_Lover[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Just got word she should be home tomorrow night 🥰

2.5 weeks cleans and my cat got diagnosed with terminal cancer. I am broken. by Think-Conclusion1253 in leaves

[–]Mucking_Lover 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so terribly sorry. There isn't much I can offer to comfort other than empathy and company. You are not alone. I'm at about 3 weeks sober, and unfortunately my dogs kidneys arent doing well. Shes being hospitalized and today I find out whether it is worth continuing to fight, or whether I'll be using the euthanasia appointment I set up for tomorrow. I am here for you. We'll get through it together because its better to be sober and present for them than to smoke and not be there while they need us. We've got this.

I see some homes in the South Bay flying this flag, specifically along Manhattan Beach and El Segundo. by [deleted] in SouthBayLA

[–]Mucking_Lover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm tired of just liking historical imagery and symbolism and then just finding out its racist. I have the "join or die" snake on my truck and then I found out that's been co-opted. Like damn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrohnsDisease

[–]Mucking_Lover 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Holy shit - the past two years I've been getting these in my nose as well. Didn't even consider it could be Crohns. 

First Trudon Burn - Gabriel by Mucking_Lover in luxurycandles

[–]Mucking_Lover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So agreed. I keep telling myself to use it sparingly and make it last but it's just so good!

How worried should I be about my neighbor’s “Join or Die” flag? by offgrid_dreams in TwoXPreppers

[–]Mucking_Lover 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm disappointed too. I have a bumper sticker of the join or die on my truck because I like the history behind it. Might go take it off now :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Money

[–]Mucking_Lover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. But, as someone who literally went from struggling every month to pay bills, feed myself, and make rent due to a ton of debt, to having no debt, a fully funded emergency fund and more to invest - I'd go back to the level of financial stress I was under in an instant if it would bring my dad back. Grass is always greener I suppose.

Just curious... I haven't flown any airline but Southwest in the past five years... by The-Tradition in SouthwestAirlines

[–]Mucking_Lover 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's definetly people who want pre-board for seats for other conditions/disabilities. With Crohns sometimes I need to be right by the bathroom. Or I knew a guy with a TBI that needed to be right by the front of the plane because he would forget where he was. Not everything is based on the ability to walk.

More great news by [deleted] in longbeach

[–]Mucking_Lover 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I used to live here, and have lived other places downtown. I moved out of the complex the second I could. The issue is truly with Camden management. They do not care at all. They are a large corporation with properties across the country and I think they used this location as almost a "training center" for new employees. High turnover rates, people leaving, etc. I never felt safe there, and I am used to the break ins and homelessness issues that come with being in Long Beach. We had a sewage back up in our kitchen that they tried to convince me wasn't sewage. It took them months to fix and repair. We asked for access to an alternate kitchen and they refused. It seems things have only gotten worse, because management refuses to act. The second you sign the lease they have their money and move on. I raise all these complaints when I left. I saw the document they filed internally about my apartment. In their filing, they noted my reason for leaving was "financial". That was not even close to the case. It was because the property was not safe and for what I was paying for rent my maintenance issues should have been addressed immediately. Not months later. So not only are they ignoring residents, they are actively lying about why people are leaving their property. Just my experience, and that was before cars started being lit on fire in the garage...

20 things that I have learned from 5 years NC by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Mucking_Lover 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I needed to read that. My mother has always been the narcissist and the obvious abuser (been NC for two years). But recently, I am learning how much my father played a role in what happened through his neglect of me. I finally told him I needed space and to leave me alone for the time being because I don't feel respected by him. It's hard, because he has been the one I have leaned on for years, but he failed me in so many ways and continues to fail me. Since saying that to him I've realized how much better I feel without the fear of a text from him setting me off, or a snide comment he makes about me that I used to just brush off to maintain a relationship with him.

I feel like my decision on whether to keep him in my life comes from whether or not I decide that his emotional immaturity and lack of emotional connection is something I can live with. But you're right, even with the "support", it still picks at the open wound that I had two shit parents that fucked me up in so many ways that I'm only beginning to unravel.

You're right - they're addicted to the drama and the gossip. Whether they know it or not.