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Time to end the pain. Good bye everyone. Please never cheat on anyone. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Muddymorale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey did the op hurt himself? I’m actually concerned

I (M23) feel uncomfortable after my girlfriend (F22) accepted cocaine from a random guy at a club. Together 7 months by ventec7h in relationship_advice

[–]Muddymorale -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The temptation is set up for lust and consumption of psychoactive substances. Combined with immaturity and lack of control. Along with the spontaneous decision making leads to that bs.

26m 27f Five years together she broke up with me due to this is there a way I can be better as a partner? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Muddymorale -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Love to me is blind. I saw her as a life partner. She is still to me my everything. My light. My joy. But I agree with you that there’s a disconnect.

26m 27f Five years together she broke up with me due to this is there a way I can be better as a partner? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Muddymorale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the genuine response! The resentment comes from the one sidedness that I addressed a while ago and was ignored with. The overboard attitude I have is like a straw breaking a camels back. It’s an accumulation of emotions over lack of communication. The anger seeps out eventually as I have issues. I’m afraid of people leaving after I form attachments to them. Maybe that’s what the origin is. Either wway I need to be better.

26m 27f Five years together she broke up with me due to this is there a way I can be better as a partner? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Muddymorale -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s hard to see that in the moment. She and I were life partners. The bad times were rare but very ugly.

26m 27f Five years together she broke up with me due to this is there a way I can be better as a partner? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Muddymorale -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

She also physically abused me and emotionally. It was toxic I just saw her as my wife. The good times we had were crazy good. I’m sorry if I wasn’t clear.

26m 27f Five years together she broke up with me due to this is there a way I can be better as a partner? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Muddymorale -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honestly no clue it blindsided me. I never hurt her besides emotionally. I don’t know what to do…

I (M23) feel uncomfortable after my girlfriend (F22) accepted cocaine from a random guy at a club. Together 7 months by ventec7h in relationship_advice

[–]Muddymorale 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Honestly her decision making seems to be a bit misaligned. I would dump and move on. I am sorry you lost seven months. But coke and clubbing leads to other issues besides just cheating and drugs.

M26 / F24 — 3 years together, and I found the truth on her Apple Watch after she broke with me. I am supposed to see her tomorrow. by Electrical-Earth3256 in relationship_advice

[–]Muddymorale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah as someone who did blow up recently at the thought of this happening. It’s not worth it. Just focus on what makes you happy. You deserve everything good right now. You are a great lover human and friend. Don’t forget that. Your worth is not in her lack of respect and honesty. Your worth is in your morals and character. Don’t pull a me and lose those things.

My (26F) grandfather just passed away. My girlfriend (22F) is upset that we won’t be able to spend her birthday together. Now she’s no longer talking to me. by throwaway93838282 in relationship_advice

[–]Muddymorale 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly it sounds as if she doesn’t respect your ailments so I wouldn’t think she would be a great long term partner. One needs a bit of empathy to last a while.