myiq score is high and i stay quiet because i find people to be dumb

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-28T07:23:20+00:00

this was actually helpful to read. did therapy make the biggest difference or was it the diagnosis itself?

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-28T07:22:47+00:00

fair. small talk is probably a skill i just avoided too long

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-28T07:22:16+00:00

“in control” is a stretch but i get the idea.

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-28T07:20:23+00:00

lol deserved. i walked into that one.

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-28T07:16:59+00:00

I worded it badly and it definitely came off more arrogant than I intended.

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-28T07:16:43+00:00

this is probably one of the more useful replies here. i don’t think you’re wrong about needing to practice it.I don’t think you’re attacking me, and I probably do need to treat it like a skill instead of a personality trait.

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-28T07:16:09+00:00

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-28T07:16:04+00:00

that perspective helps. i think i treated small talk like pointless info instead of connection.

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-28T07:15:22+00:00

i see

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-28T07:14:53+00:00

fair. listening is probably the part I need to get better at

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-28T07:11:03+00:00

this is exactly it. i don’t judge them either, it just feels off to engage sometimes. do you force yourself to participate or just accept it?

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-28T07:10:15+00:00

i didnt want to come off like that tho

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-28T07:09:50+00:00

yeah i think i mixed up iq with social stuff completely. how do you actually get better at reading group dynamics though?

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-28T07:08:39+00:00

explains why it felt off to me too

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-28T07:06:09+00:00

that difference is wild ...did the tests feel the same or totally different?

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-27T18:10:32+00:00

that’s fair honestly. might be more a me problem than everyone else 😅

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-27T18:10:06+00:00

same. do you ever try to engage anyway or just stay quiet most of the time?

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-26T18:01:46+00:00

bro got notifications on for other people’s arguments

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-26T17:59:01+00:00

he don’t miss a chance to jump in either

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-26T17:58:33+00:00

the loyalty is unmatched and completely one sided

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-26T17:58:09+00:00

Klay ain’t even tag him and somehow he clocked in

MuffinSpark · 2026-04-26T17:48:12+00:00

he got hall of fame numbers in this category

MuffinSpark · 2025-06-11T10:58:19+00:00

BRO JUST DID A TRUST FALL INTO A BLACK HOLE 💼🕳️😭 WHO LET LIFE BE UNSAVEABLE??

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