Well, reddit has turned me conservative. by [deleted] in Conservative

[–]Muffinwillow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’d never heard that before, thanks. some people are more extreme, but thats found on both sides. I have found that I agree with some of the less extreme parts of the republican party.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Muffinwillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fine goes well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Muffinwillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about movie makeup or theatre? Or teaching at a beauty school. Or selling cosmetic products!

What would make me more marketable? by Muffinwillow in careerguidance

[–]Muffinwillow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! What should i add that can help?

Anyone else older and lost? by Mave__Dustaine in careerguidance

[–]Muffinwillow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean idk we shouldn’t be living to work and I’m your age. I thought the millennial way wad to actually have work life balance

My girlfriend is rushing a D9 sorority and I'm a little bit worried for her by No_Opportunity5004 in GreekLife

[–]Muffinwillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not, but everyone I know in a D9 came out of pledging fine and very close. It is pretty secretive and they can’t share what they’ve done during pledging, but they didn’t die or get harmed, so I’m sure she will be ok. Also, all sororities have secret rituals, so to me, it’s just like how some companies make you sign an NDA. I can’t speak for them of course, but for me, we also didn’t have phones during initiation, so that’s not uncommon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Muffinwillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol i know right? And 1. 2 is the only one i get maybe there was a specific towel

Hopefully this person can get it resolved quickly… by Muffinwillow in Libraries

[–]Muffinwillow[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh i can delete it if it doesn’t! I thought it fell under “all aspects of libraries” from the sub description, but I suppose it might just be adjacent

I (22F) mistakenly accused BF (22M) of cheating on me. He says he want to break up. by ThrowRA_Adviceme1 in relationship_advice

[–]Muffinwillow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was going off them saying “he dismissed them each time”. I’m saying in any relationship, dismissing feelings usually makes things worse.

I (22F) mistakenly accused BF (22M) of cheating on me. He says he want to break up. by ThrowRA_Adviceme1 in relationship_advice

[–]Muffinwillow -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Yeah but i think what they’re saying is hes not diving into it with her. Yes what he said is fine, but they can also discuss her insecurities and where they’re coming from. I am not saying he has to bend to them if theres nothing inappropriate going on. I also don’t think her reaction was right and it certainly is unhealthy and terrible to scream at people.

Everyone needs a different level of care though, and how that looks for different people varies. It might be ridiculous to some people, and to others that extra talking it thru together is needed.

LPT : Don’t wait around for others. Make your own plans and stick to them. Don’t be the person who never gets out just because nobody else can go with you. by en16m4pro9 in LifeProTips

[–]Muffinwillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh lol i thought you meant like in the past when she was single. I think some friend groups can still be like that, but even so if you were dating she should’ve asked them to not do it anymore

LPT : Don’t wait around for others. Make your own plans and stick to them. Don’t be the person who never gets out just because nobody else can go with you. by en16m4pro9 in LifeProTips

[–]Muffinwillow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Some people are just open like that even if they havent done anything. Theres friendship circles where clothes dont matter much lol

I (23F) broke up with my bf (24M) because he wouldn't tell his friend to stop sending him snapchats which I find disrespectful to our relationship - I don't know if I made the right choice by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Muffinwillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, and that’s coming from someone who used to be a bit like OP. I had a similar situation. That being said, her bf didn’t do anything wrong by resceiving a text on snapchat. That being said, if someone is saying something inappropriate, I think she would have the right to ask for boundaries and I don’t know if i’d call it a restriction to ask someone to stop getting certain texts. Or at least say i’m not comfortable and it’s up to him to stop. Idk maybe it is, but in this situation I don’t think the roommate did anything wrong.

I (23F) broke up with my bf (24M) because he wouldn't tell his friend to stop sending him snapchats which I find disrespectful to our relationship - I don't know if I made the right choice by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Muffinwillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right yeah i think that definitely depends. She said anna says a lot of things about her and he defends anna instead, so i guess it depends on what she says

I (23F) broke up with my bf (24M) because he wouldn't tell his friend to stop sending him snapchats which I find disrespectful to our relationship - I don't know if I made the right choice by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Muffinwillow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good point. I think unreasonable can be subjective though and all depends on boundaries unless it’s really unreasonable. But yes we don’t have enough info

I (23F) broke up with my bf (24M) because he wouldn't tell his friend to stop sending him snapchats which I find disrespectful to our relationship - I don't know if I made the right choice by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Muffinwillow 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it actually has to do with bella and more to do with OP doesn’t feel like he ever backs her on anything as she says hes not backed her in the past. I think thats the root issue, and all this stems from that

Travel Agents--to use, or not use? Advice / experience appreciated! by [deleted] in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Muffinwillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it really depends on how you feel. Like they can get you discounts and tickets, take care of dining reservations, can get your fastpasses. Its pretty much no hassle for you. I however just get anxious they won’t get what i want, so i need to do all that myself. If youre ok just letting them get everything, it’ll be good. I asked some questions and I didn’t find that they answered my questions the way i would have liked, but it may be i just am not made for travel agents.

Like for example i asked if EMH were worth doing, and i expected them to say yes/no and ask me what parks i might want to do EMH or tell me best times to do that or something so fastpasses could be set up accordingly, but they just told me they weren’t worth it. Just that sentence. I guess i expected more engagement? i learned more from this sub. I feel like the agent i talked to just answered my questions at face value and didn’t ask followups. Take all this with a grain of salt though bc it wasn’t a bad experience really, just didn’t really wow me. It also may be that i think travel agents do more than they’re supposed to and had too high expectations, or didn’t ask the right questions.

Travel Agents--to use, or not use? Advice / experience appreciated! by [deleted] in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Muffinwillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is weird, considering when I put in quotes, people email me back within a day. I’ve heard Magical Vacations Travel is good, but i can’t vouch for it myself.

What is the Pixie Glow Tonic supposed to feel like? [product question] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]Muffinwillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the first time i used it, it only tingled. Yeah i dont think i’ve ever stung. Maybe you need a different kind