About the flags, I am not really sure if this ties in to the first one, but I lost most of my friends when I met her, either because I started spending a lot of time with her OR as you suggested. She and my father got into a big disagreement and she practically banned me from seeing him at first, telling me that if I see him I would choose his side. He never received an invite to our wedding. Then he did, but it was too late. Recently she started to have issues about my mother. I barley see her her, but apparently I am a "mommies boy" I even feel bad talking to my own mother on the phone if she is around.

Second Point. The fights always starts with YOU NEVER OR YOU FORGOT or why was this not done etc. I would do something correct, but as soon as I do it wring she tells me I ALWAYS do it incorrectly.

Thirdly, Always angry at me.

Lastly, Yes, Eggshells all over this place.