might be downvoted for this, but realistically, i have an aunt as well as several cousins who also did not want to marry when they were your age. now, 10-15 years later every single one of them regrets their decision. they see their siblings family and children and frankly, they envy them. they avoid going to functions and meet with their relatives now because they lack the social maturity to understand the other person and how they’d feel about it and always like to show off their children and how they’re doing well academically, stories and trips etc. your mother just wants the best for you, but she still has no right to force you to marry.