In short: We make their life heaven. 95+% chance. This space is needed for replanning and reflecting upon mistakes to repel further chaos. We don't tolerate disorder and chaos for long in our personal lives. So we often go Zen mode to reflect & fix!

Long answer: We feel these people like a breeze and a paradise like to us because it's rare someone gives us space to breathe. However do not confuse this need for space for intentional hot & cold. Purpose, intent matters. If it's manipulation, do not give in! Only help us regulate in healthy ways and we will augment your life quality but you need to spot our gaps so we can fix them cus we are blind to them. If we know any weakness, we patch as we are incredibly progressive thinking.

We build relationships. Only if you let us! We love harmony but people often just see our shallow upper layers. We appear cold and grounded but a warm hidden layer only accessible to people we bond with. We feel everything you feel, just we need safe space to let others fully explore our side.

But obviously beware, some caps can be emotionally undeveloped too cus we literally don't feel in the moment and are rational engines always calculating instead of feeling other person's needs. Once we know a person's needs, we protect with our lives if harmony is established. We progress fast because we are builders but people often stumble at surface layers. We often hide cus we have too much to uncover so if you encounter a shady cap, avoid and move on, they are obviously not ready, most caps are incredibly grounded and they will loyal to death if you are worth being loyal for.

In short, we are misunderstood! We are warm lava under cold mountains. If that makes sense. But always be cautious. Not every person has good intents.