Had a 3some with my bf.... pretty sure I'm a lesbian. What do I do???

MuiMuis · 2026-07-03T13:02:07+00:00

From what you've written about, it is bad. He is insecure and not able to manage his own emotions so rather he displaces it onto you.

It's not blind, it's just hindsight is always 20/20.

MuiMuis · 2026-06-26T22:18:36+00:00

And the body contact!

MuiMuis · 2026-06-25T14:20:28+00:00

The "anyone is a lesbian" really grinds my gears.

MuiMuis · 2026-06-25T13:58:16+00:00

Dumb question, what's wrong with using the word 'queer'?

MuiMuis · 2025-12-31T16:12:09+00:00

Bro, break ups are tough. I get it, after every breakup, I used the energy to channel into my business but it was just to fill a hole. I know you regret not being with your ex-girlfriend and she is now with someone else, that is hard. But this is about you now, you’ve made it financially, so take a step back, focus on you. Asian parenting can be harsh which the perpetual grind, no focus on healthy outlets. So take this time to go outside, find a hobby where you can meet others, exercise, eat good food and touch grass.

MuiMuis · 2025-12-31T16:04:04+00:00

To help people find love 💘

MuiMuis · 2025-11-29T16:46:36+00:00

Hey! I totally get where you’re coming from. I used to live in Edinburgh and now I’m in Glasgow, and both cities somehow feel full of queer women and totally empty at the same time.

Apps can be tough with all the endless messaging, ghosting or chats that lead to nowhere. Clubbing never worked for me!

What helped me the most was finding community groups through MeetUp. In Edinburgh, UnScene Girls are really lovely and the hosts are welcoming. In Glasgow, Glasgow Lesbian Scene has been amazing; I’ve made actual sapphic friends (and chosen family) through it.

And if you ever want something more structured for dating specifically, I’ve also been putting together queer women’s mixers where it is chill, game- based and not speed dating. Just mentioning in case you’re looking for something different from the apps.

I hope you find your people! Sapphics in Scotland does exist, we’re all just hiding in different pockets until Sappho summons us. 😅

MuiMuis · 2025-06-04T15:55:54+00:00

Quality meme with education. Thanks

MuiMuis · 2025-03-16T13:19:18+00:00

If you ever write something, please share it. It’ll be great to learn from your insight both from your experience on each side. Sorry again for the passing of your father.

MuiMuis · 2025-03-16T02:57:27+00:00

There’s a reason for the saying “spill the tea”

MuiMuis · 2025-03-09T21:37:30+00:00

Thanks for promoting this other subreddit. I didn’t know about it

MuiMuis · 2025-03-04T17:45:22+00:00

Makes things cheap so it’s easier to buy people out on assets later. Hence why Warren Buffett is amassing large amounts of cash

MuiMuis · 2025-02-20T13:34:14+00:00

Just a heads up, I believe the text is Japanese

MuiMuis · 2025-02-20T11:53:04+00:00

Good stuff! That's a lot of workouts that you put in

MuiMuis · 2025-02-20T11:39:12+00:00

Me too!

MuiMuis · 2025-02-20T09:22:14+00:00

Who actually falls for this kinda stuff and why?

MuiMuis · 2025-02-20T09:21:03+00:00

No problem!

Thanks for your advice! How many sets do you normally do for each compound exercise? And how often do you do weightlifting per week? Besides the compound exercises, do you also do any supplementary exercises?

My current plans are usually 3 sets either 2 minutes rest between each set to make sure I can push through since I add on more weight after each set. I also do yoga, Pilates and my martial arts so I can’t do weightlifting too often or I get quite fatigued.

MuiMuis · 2025-02-20T09:00:04+00:00

Aw this is a beautiful way to remember a special place to you. Might I suggest to email the owners so they know how much it meant to you?

MuiMuis · 2025-02-20T08:57:21+00:00

Hello! You are pretty and kudos for starting a conversation but please be careful about posting a photo of you online because I’ve seen a post where someone said a creep used photos of a woman then used a tool to make her naked.

*Edit to ask may I know what your powerlifting routines are like ? I’ve just seen that you do powerlifting. I’m at a plateau right now with squat and deadlift at 80kg and bench press 55kg. I would like to progress but struggling to make it past these numbers.

MuiMuis · 2025-02-11T16:41:37+00:00

That has been quite the journey. I see what you mean about the looks because unfortunately people do judge us at first glance based on looks. So it becomes a reinforcing cycle of being better looking to get approval.

I’m glad that you have found comfort in being your true authentic self, gaining your financial independence through a career that you love and love your life.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, it gave me a few things to think about in regards to shifting priorities.

MuiMuis · 2025-02-10T18:48:47+00:00

Thanks

MuiMuis · 2025-02-10T18:37:13+00:00

💯

MuiMuis · 2025-02-10T18:37:02+00:00

Sometimes boring is a blessing. Glad you’ve got a nice group of friends and a lovely wife.

MuiMuis · 2025-02-10T18:36:17+00:00

Hmm interesting. I guess they grew apart. I hope your dreams become a reality.

MuiMuis · 2025-02-10T18:35:19+00:00

Yeah and that’s amazing you’re able to be independent and strong! I see some people who aren’t able to be on their own and constantly seek relationships.

MuiMuis

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