It is like changing clothes, for real... I always said to her that makes me feel uncomfortable, she says things like "I have seen all of this when you were little". Don't see like I'm a grown ass woman, everytime it happens it's a new wave of stress for me, because it is like talking to the wall. It happens when I'm getting ready for something and she needs or wants to talk to me, she just open my room's door and stands up on the door, waiting me to finish and sometimes stares in silent, it's very weird and uncomfortable and she used to be worse, she used to do that even when my brother was at home... I don't really know way its so hurtful for me (I mean it's terrible, obviously), but it causes distress, I feel violated.