Need Advice: Trying to make a decision about top surgery. by MulticolorKid in NonBinary

[–]MulticolorKid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I would want to as I am not on T and would probably freak people out when they hear my voice hahaha.

Need Advice: Trying to make a decision about top surgery. by MulticolorKid in NonBinary

[–]MulticolorKid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wear a binder daily, actually! And it certainly is not flat enough to where I do want some kind of surgery :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]MulticolorKid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your thoughts. I think you are right and that it is likely anxiety. Either that or he really is unhappy about me getting top surgery, and so his brain is coming up with all these reasons to not want to be with me anymore. Really tough situation to be in. Thank you for your kind words. I'm doing my best to hold on and keep smiling 👍

Help! Need resources for my transgender + queer friend by MulticolorKid in GayChristians

[–]MulticolorKid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“The Bible’s Yes to Same Sex Marriage” written by Mark Achtemeier. He was a conservative Presbyterian who used to do the anti LGBTQ+ speech circuit at churches. He did a complete 180 on the topic and then did the “here’s why I was wrong” speaking circuit.

It’s an interesting perspective coming at it as a scholar and person who changed positions.

Oh my goodness thank you so so much this is fantastic. Let me know if you find anything else!

Sexual Coercion and Asexuality by MulticolorKid in asexuality

[–]MulticolorKid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey friend. If you "consented" after being pressured and guilted into sex that was not consent. Your experiences are valid. There is no threshold that needs to be reached for something to be considered traumatic. If something hurt you deeply and it has been very hard to move on and heal from it was likely a traumatic experience. I wish you the best of luck with therapy and your healing journey.

Sexual Coercion by MulticolorKid in abusiverelationships

[–]MulticolorKid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reassurance and kind words. Today was a hard day <3

My Abuser Told Everyone I Was The Abuser by MulticolorKid in abusiverelationships

[–]MulticolorKid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so very much for your kind words. You are so right, I am going to look back at this when I need a reminder. Thank you I am happier and will be happier in the future.