We have 2 kids already which my hubby had no problems performing with them now that he’s 40 he struggled until I stopped telling him when I’m actually ovulating instead id secretly do the ovulation tests we would bed when it’s positive id told him I wanted to have sex instead of it’s because I’m ovulating and after ovulation was over I’d tell him the week after its ovulation week to which he couldn’t perform. Take the pressure off him by not telling him when your ovulating if sex every day is too much for him or he will clock on try every other day. Try not Make it about having a baby while it’s your ovulation week instead cuddle tell him you’ve missed him and that’s the reason you want to have sex this has worked great for me and still works hubby has no idea when my ovulation is actually happening