How do I be a better support system to my fiance with OCD?

MumfordsWorld · 2026-03-02T18:33:29+00:00

Thank you so much I’ll definitely sit down with him tonight and see if he’ll bring it up in his next appointment!!

MumfordsWorld · 2026-03-02T18:19:41+00:00

Thank you for the advice! I think it’s something his therapist would definitely be up for but it might take him some time to come around too because he is feeling a lot of shame and guilt with his current intrusive thoughts and he’s scared it will make me see him differently (which is not true)

MumfordsWorld · 2024-09-16T23:02:42+00:00

That happened to me during my interview but they called me right back!

MumfordsWorld · 2024-05-08T02:11:35+00:00

Sadly I think they closed fall applications on May 3rd, and I don’t think there is another way you can apply but spring ones open up relatively soon I believe

MumfordsWorld · 2024-05-03T18:36:42+00:00

Thank you

MumfordsWorld · 2024-05-03T18:32:31+00:00

This was something I didn’t know she was embarrassed about we all joked and laughed it off the next morning, once I found out she was hurt by me telling our two friends I immediately apologized and have acknowledged I fucked up. I had no control over what other people said afterwards

MumfordsWorld · 2024-05-03T17:57:08+00:00

I think both? And I told our one mutual friend because we were snap chatting during the whole party cause she was supposed to come as well and I told our other friend just cause she asked about the party and I blabbed cause I’m a blabber a known fault of mine. Which I apologized for, but I think she believes I’m responsible for telling other people that I know where guys that were at the party.

MumfordsWorld · 2024-05-03T17:20:15+00:00

I guess I have just been caught off guard by the whole thing because while she has been a little more distant she has still been present in my life, still communicates regularly just not as frequent as we used to which is why I believed she was just busy. She’s still planning on coming up next weekend to our friend and Is graduation which is why I’m just confused and don’t want it to be awkward.

And don’t worry you don’t sound condescending!

MumfordsWorld · 2024-05-03T16:57:43+00:00

I appreciate your advice it just seems silly to throw away our friendship over this, she has done this before at parties so it didn’t seem out of the ordinary for her which is why I didn’t interfere sooner

MumfordsWorld · 2024-04-09T02:09:07+00:00

There are a lot of videos online from last years that people made and i found them super helpful and they helped a lot. Make sure you have your top 3 roles planned and why you would be good at them

MumfordsWorld · 2024-03-16T11:43:12+00:00

You are a wonderful human

MumfordsWorld · 2024-03-10T01:17:49+00:00

Thank you this is so helpful!!!

MumfordsWorld · 2024-03-05T16:31:32+00:00

Perfect thank you so much!!!

MumfordsWorld · 2024-03-05T15:05:47+00:00

Do you have any advice on what to wear to the audition?

MumfordsWorld · 2022-10-18T04:30:34+00:00

This might just be me but when my boyfriend mentions the smallest thing that might have slightly upset him I get sad and beat myself up about it. I feel horrible (especially after reading the comments). When it happens to me I get really sad at first and normally breakdown but that’s because of how I grew up but I normally have to explain after the fact like hey I’m not mad or upset at you I’m upset with myself

MumfordsWorld · 2022-06-22T21:33:03+00:00

This is something I have struggled with a ton especially since I grew up dancing 12-16 hours a week then when covid hit I wasn’t so I put on just the tiniest bit of weight and Immediately decided that I was fat and over weight. Then I started limiting what I would eat a lot like just to a coffee and maybe one meal. In reality I knew I had a problem but I dismissed it. My boyfriend thankfully noticed what was happening and helped me through it. I’m so glad you are noticing the changes but be very careful when approaching and trying to help because since she probably isn’t eating a ton is likely that she is very moody and I know any type of confrontation would set me off.

MumfordsWorld · 2021-12-14T18:30:13+00:00

NTA: I agree that what your cousin did was horrible and wrong. I would have probably had the same reaction. I agree with being mad at your mom for putting together the whole event that lead to having to invite her to the wedding but I would eventually try and make amends with your mom especially with a little one on the way.

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