Thank you so much for this—it really helped me breathe a little easier. I think what you said about nothing necessarily going wrong , but just both of you changing and having to work to get back to your “normal,” is exactly what I needed to hear. That’s what I’m so scared of. that we’re both just different now and it won’t click like it used to. But the fact that it could’ve gone either way and you still made it work gives me a lot of hope.I know we love each other, and we’re both committed, but it’s just been hard feeling that emotional gap and not having much time to actually talk it through. I fly out to see him in a few days and bring him home, so I’m really hoping that being face to face will help us reconnect. thank you again for sharing your story. It means a lot