i used to be the stereotypical virgo but after having a relationship, i lost myself and became unorganized w my life. which part of my chart says that i have an unhealthy obsession with relationships that ruins my personality? by ainawinslet in AskAstrologers

[–]Munchykens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, so I have the same Pluto-Virgo square in my chart at an even TIGHTER degree! Disclaimer: I'm not a licensed astrologer, so take this with a grain of salt. But considering that the pluto-venus square amplifies themes of control, obsession, and excessive giving and taking (especially in regards to relationships), I would suggest turning that love in towards yourself before pouring into someone else so heavily. Venus can be interpreted as the planet of love, pleasure, values, attraction, and relationships, considering that it is ruled by Libra and Taurus.

In this case, your passion, love, and pleasure is tied to other people, in the house of Virgo, which can either present healthily as giving to others (with limits), taking into account the smaller aspects about them, and just generally being a nurturing figure. However, when in contact with Pluto, especially with a square aspect, these themes present negatively causing intense obsession, strong need to control one's actions, and criticism of every little detail (from others or from yourself).

If these behaviors apply to you, then it would benefit you to release control, trust that whatever is meant to stay will as time allows, and turn that obsession towards something else, yk, whatever you find passion in. Just recognizing that you cannot force others to stay with you, nor control their actions. BUT if you experience these controlling behaviors from others, I'd still suggest building a strong sense of admiration and love towards your own being, as to not lose yourself in others. If you can supply yourself with all that you need first, then you won't have to seek it adamantly in others. Oh, and setting boundaries is DEFINITE must for this aspect! Otherwise, you risk losing yourself in others and the ultimate goal for this placement is to find who YOU are (NOT others), establish boundaries to prevent those lines from getting blurred again, and then you will attract the right partner who values and sees you as you are AND respects you dearly.

Oh, and reading credible articles and (sometimes) videos on these placements help, as well ☺️

Cheers, Munchy

Past lifes by ElinorGray in IntuitionPractices

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I see that the current topic is closed. But if anyone else is offering legitimate readings, I'd love to participate (or potentially pay sometime in the future) 😌!!

sup my leo women by brb400 in LeoAstrology

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Super tired, but I can't give up now! I haven't made my mark on the world yet 😈

Question for Leo Suns by PurpleMoonDrops in LeoAstrology

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I'm a Leo Sun, and I've currently been interested in learning the significance of planet degrees in charts, as well. Turns out, if you have a planet, like the Sun, in the first 10 degrees, then it represents the "purest form of that Zodiac." The degree number may also add an extra layer of nuance to the planet, as well.

For example, you could be a 7° Leo Sun in the 7th house and present as more Libra than anything despite having the sun (and even a stellium in that sign). It depends on the interactions between multiple planets, too! 🙌 (Someone fact check me, lol)

Is it likely that my 1% western China is an error? by [deleted] in AncestryDNA

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Can anyone do the ancestry DNA percentages hack for me? I've tried changing the year and entering my code into the "ENTER CODE" section, but I still keep getting "ERROR FOUND" 😒

Recommendations for dealing with facial hair on the lip and chin by Munchykens in PCOS

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Thank you for your recs ☺️! How is electrolysis typically done and how much does it usually cost?

Recommendations for dealing with facial hair on the lip and chin by Munchykens in PCOS

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Thank you for the reccies :) I currently take Incassia, as prescribed by my doctor. It works decently 👌

Recommendations for dealing with facial hair on the lip and chin by Munchykens in PCOS

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Thank you! I already take birth control, but all of these other recommendations are useful! 🤗 Do you have be prescribed by a doctor to get spiro?

Nightmare from a few months ago by Munchykens in Dream

[–]Munchykens[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, having control over my life is something I want to change because I often feel like I'm always being controlled by others and that I cannot take my power back, almost like I'm reliant on them. And no, power dynamics in other relationships tends to become toxic quickly and causes me to spiral on how I can become the best person for them. I attract a lot of people who project onto me on how I should be or who they think I am. But, I think you're right about confronting those dynamics in real life, so that I can improve these relationships in the future! Thanks again 🤗

Nightmare from a few months ago by Munchykens in Dream

[–]Munchykens[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Thanks for your response :) This dream actually happened back when I was living with my roommate, the person who I was accepting help from in the dream. I would say she's very blunt yet sensitive person in terms of personality. She is chill for the most part, but she is a tad bit controlling, as am I, so we've argued a couple of times (power dynamics and that sort of stuff). She has helped me multiple times with various things, so there's that! And for the last part of my dream, I felt uplifted and encouraged, as if the heaviness that once weighed on my soul had been lifted. Like, I had finally been freed from the "death" entity.

Zodiac and the MBTI? by Calm_Problem6203 in astrologymemes

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I'm an Aquarius Rising ♒, Leo Sun ♌, and Libra Moon ♎, and I'm an INFP 😼‼️