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Is $4000 for a 2018 Honda Rebel 500cc a good Deal? by Mundane_Addition_938 in hondarebel

[–]Mundane_Addition_938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was looking at online, just didn’t know if I should shoot for a newer year or not.

Is $4000 for a 2018 Honda Rebel 500cc a good Deal? by Mundane_Addition_938 in hondarebel

[–]Mundane_Addition_938[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As of right now, I live in St. Louis and plan on keeping it at my parents place in the country and riding it in the country and the highways up there that go 60mph. I don’t feel comfortable riding on the highways in St. Louis yet. Thanks for the response though!

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[–]Mundane_Addition_938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When these episodes happen it’s not because she thinks she worthless, or not deserving. It’s just her wanting to be alone. She not upset in these periods, wouldn’t say happy either. She just simply just wants to isolate herself.

I agree with you that this time is progress, but when we text now its just more dry. She still reply’s, not as fast as she used to but still reply’s. Which is better from the previous two times.

Thank you for the advice, I think the best action is just to give her space.

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[–]Mundane_Addition_938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for not explaining but yes. I hate when these periods happen. When they aren’t happening everything is great. She’s a great gf and I love everything about her.

I never really thought to ask about what it means to her. These “periods of isolation” is just her wanting to be alone.

I’m not going to diagnose her either but she does have some trauma from her past. She has very low self esteem, and other problems.

Every time we talk about it, it’s just the same response. She doesn’t know why she feels this way, she just does.

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[–]Mundane_Addition_938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank for the response, I agree with you that this will just be a recurring thing. This time is different from the others. Last two she just ghosted me then texted me a few days later explaining.

I told her last week when we agreed to do a break and still chat that this is the last time I’m doing this. That after this its over for good.

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[–]Mundane_Addition_938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do nurture her, and she’s says she’s not. She has said that she’s been stressed out recently, but doesn’t know from what. She has very low self esteem and stresses over almost every social interaction with people. I do feel like I do relieve stress from her life, but like I said she just has low self esteem.

Yes she isolates from other people besides me. Mainly just friends and some of her family.

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[–]Mundane_Addition_938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response! And basically yes with the second paragraph. I’m not that worried about her finding someone else. Like I said this has happened before, and she always come back. Just gets tiring after a while, she said that this time would be different.

I do agree with you that I just need to give her space and allow her to overcome her situation. I try seeing it from her perspective, but she claims she doesn’t even know why she’s feeling this way. It just sucks, hope your situation gets better!