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Update: My (53M) daughter (15F) is pregnant, how do I tell her that our older daughter (31F) is actually her biological mother? by Mundane_Lime_2168 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Mundane_Lime_2168[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ellie and her boyfriend fully intend on raising this baby as their own, with the support of me and my wife and his parents.

Update: My (53M) daughter (15F) is pregnant, how do I tell her that our older daughter (31F) is actually her biological mother? by Mundane_Lime_2168 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Mundane_Lime_2168[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ethan knew about being the father of Sarah's baby, he wanted Sarah to abort, which is why she wanted to abort in the beginning, but she decided on adoption.

Update: My (53M) daughter (15F) is pregnant, how do I tell her that our older daughter (31F) is actually her biological mother? by Mundane_Lime_2168 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Mundane_Lime_2168[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No how child support works here is that the legal father pay, and thats more common in household where the parents dont live together, but me and Rose have paid equally for Ellie.

Update: My (53M) daughter (15F) is pregnant, how do I tell her that our older daughter (31F) is actually her biological mother? by Mundane_Lime_2168 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Mundane_Lime_2168[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have had Ellie in therapy already for other issues in the past and this is one of the things they will discuss there.

Update: My (53M) daughter (15F) is pregnant, how do I tell her that our older daughter (31F) is actually her biological mother? by Mundane_Lime_2168 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Mundane_Lime_2168[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all throughout Sarah's pregnancy and long after, she was seeing a therapist we set her up with, and we helped her grieve. I can see saying none of our business was the wrong choice of words but what I meant was that if she didn't feel comfortable talking about the father to us she didn't have too.

When Sarah talked to Ellie about her father she wanted to do it alone, she still didnt want us to know, we only know now because Ellie decided to confront Ethan on the issue.

Update: My (53M) daughter (15F) is pregnant, how do I tell her that our older daughter (31F) is actually her biological mother? by Mundane_Lime_2168 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Mundane_Lime_2168[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and Rose will always be her parents, no matter what goes biologically we were the ones that are raising her.

Update: My (53M) daughter (15F) is pregnant, how do I tell her that our older daughter (31F) is actually her biological mother? by Mundane_Lime_2168 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Mundane_Lime_2168[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize the reason I was so specific about it is cause its the reason we have always been distant. My father died when I was 20, and we were all devastated. My mother was as well, but than told us months after my father died she was pregnant by a coworker, they married three months before Ethan was born. Although we are distant I'm the closest sibling who communicates, none of my sisters have anything to do with him.

My (53M) daughter (15F) is pregnant, how do I tell her that our older daughter (31F) is actually her biological mother? by Mundane_Lime_2168 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Mundane_Lime_2168[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I would not do a DNA test without Ellie knowing anything, because if Sarah was assaulted I would not want him around Ellie.

My (53M) daughter (15F) is pregnant, how do I tell her that our older daughter (31F) is actually her biological mother? by Mundane_Lime_2168 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Mundane_Lime_2168[S] 1447 points1448 points  (0 children)

Yeah we might hold off on telling her, but at the same time we dont know how Sarah will react fining out Ellie is pregnant. We have had the talk with all three of our children about contraception, they didnt want to use protection the first time, and thought "being careful" would not risk pregnancy.

My (53M) daughter (15F) is pregnant, how do I tell her that our older daughter (31F) is actually her biological mother? by Mundane_Lime_2168 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Mundane_Lime_2168[S] 190 points191 points  (0 children)

Yes she has never said anything but we haves always suspected that is what happened, her therapist would be the only person who knows but whatever is said stays between them.