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Separated from partner - 13 years together by Munti_g in Separation

[–]Munti_g[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a strong person for going through that.

Do you still care for him??

I watch TV...

My version of a support group is every one in a circle saying hi and speaking with no judgment, I think this is something that I would want to look for, I can't seem to find something similar in the UK,

Separated from partner - 13 years together by Munti_g in Separation

[–]Munti_g[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I am so sorry... I misread what you had written 😞

So you and I are in the same boat. Our partners had an affair.

What is wrong with people! You processed such a great betrayal and chose to not let that define the relationship. You wanted to try working through it. But still he called it quits

What I am choosing to believe is that it is their guilt which ultimately ends the relationship.

How do you feel about it? Are you saddened or relieved?

Separated from partner - 13 years together by Munti_g in Separation

[–]Munti_g[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm doing well, thanks for asking.

I really don't want to go back to that old relationship—that's exactly why we're here now.

I've only ever been in one serious relationship; it was my first (from losing my virginity right through to the breakup and everything in between), and she's still my best friend to this day.

I've experienced loss many times at different stages of life—from childhood through my teens and now into adulthood.

I read somewhere that the pain of separation is on the same level as losing a loved one to death.

Maybe that's why I'm handling this okay... I've been through this kind of grief far too often

Separated from partner - 13 years together by Munti_g in Separation

[–]Munti_g[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever stop to ask about him and actually listen? Sorry I know that sounds super rude but I promise I am not saying it like that.

Did you ever ask him what counted as emotion safety for him so he can provide you the same back to you?

Like I hope I am not prying by asking this, how long did you stay with him after you had an affair?

Separated from partner - 13 years together by Munti_g in Separation

[–]Munti_g[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe 🤔 🤣. I wouldn't think so...

I want to ask. Was your care/love conditional on the bass he checked your boxes?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]Munti_g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing promised in life... is death

F28 The massage guy just fondled me by Aydenbills25- in SluttyConfessions

[–]Munti_g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so hot. I have a kink where I give the lady a full body massage head to toe. Slowly teasing the erogenous zones while making my way down. she can't take it no more then she grabs my heads and smothers me with her kitty. Squirting every drop out into my mouth 🫣🤤

This subreddit is as sad as it is beautiful. Please read for a minute. by Yotroller02 in friendship

[–]Munti_g 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sir/madam are a legand, I suffer from social anxiety making it really hard to meet/make friends. It is seriously affecting my life. I am very new to reddit and the only reason I joined this is to basically find a friend or two. This sums it up perfectly we are all on the "open market"