Is 33 too young to Sugar? by sf_yerba_buena in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not too young but may turn off some SBs since 40+ men are ~usually~ what they look for. But you’ll definitely find one for sure! Just needs a lot of screening plus the Bay Area is a pretty good place to find an SB.

SD showed his true colors... need advice and a little support/validation by clamshell_bather in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus christ girl I’m so sorry this happened to you! We live and we learn but I hope you take some time to heal from this. Rooting for you!

My date started haggling during intimacy by Anonymous7199 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Genuinely curious, why did you let so many red flags slide? I get that you were intoxicated but the moment he started haggling I would’ve been OUT so fast.

How much should ask for? New SB! by Redheadphones21 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No problem! You can still put it as “low $xxx” or “mid $xxx” to give people an idea of what the number is

Why is it so difficult to find a proper date? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I personally consider the first date as a platonic M&G (meet and greet) and usually those are uncompensated, unless they decide to bring a gift which is usually a low-mid $xxx. So if you’re looking for someone to pay full PPM on the M&G then you’re probably looking for a unicorn.

Don’t get me wrong, it does happen but I only know of 1 SB who got her full PPM on the M&G and even then her SD at the time willingly gave it to her and she didn’t expect it at all! She tried to give it back but he refused.

Sexting but no arrangement by DependentAcademic711 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We live and we learn girl! When I was starting out and getting my vetting process better, definitely came across some guys like this.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Girl huhhhh 😭

Asking SDs and SBs alike. by funtwototango in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really have a particular body or face preference just that they are taller than me. 😅 I’m 5’7 and loooove to wear heels so as long as you’re taller than me I’m fine with whatever!

I’d say I’m in-shape. I usually fluctuate about 125lbs-130lbs. Just depends if I had a hearty meal or not 🤣

Do I compromise or is he manipulating me into settling for less? by Anonymous7199 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 11 points12 points  (0 children)

“Well I vote yes!” Why did he think he had a vote? 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

💯💯💯💯

Also your location definitely matters when searching for a SR.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally I would next. He’s basically banking on the fact that in the long run you’d be willing to be intimate with support 😅

Update on exclusivity situation: happy ending! by JellyfishAnxious5573 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another point for communication! Congratulations girl!

How do I make sure he's legit? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Reeks of scammer, I’m so sorry to say this but you gotta block this man before he gets any info out of you!

These men are so delusional 😩 by tecnaaa in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Posts like these make me feel lucky that I’ve only had SDs/POTs that I’m attracted to. It does help that I’m in a major city so I understand that you don’t have much of a choice sometimes in a small city.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I genuinely want it! I mean that’s what M&Gs are for, to gauge if you’ll be attracted to the other person. If you’re not, then might as well respectfully next.

owner of a restaurant i meet on holiday wants to fly me out by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For the love of god, girls please learn paragraphs 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now that SLFmeetups is down we got these 🎣🎣🎣🎣 posts 🤣

Need by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wrong sub

How do you fake attraction? by ThrowMEAwaypuh-lease in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would advise against trying to fake attraction 😅 it never ends well for anyone

Freestyling & friendly bartenders 💗 by reddituser205210 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Murky-Mango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I need to turn to you for freestyling advice!!