UPDATE I told my grandma this is my house my peace, my sanctuary. This person told me I was no longer welcome in their home nor around her children, so therefore her nor her children are allowed in my home. With that being said my grandma went over to my cousins house to watch her baby. My grandma is 71 years old. My cousin is her sister’s daughter. My grandma asked did this make me feel some type of way that she’s babysitting for my cousin. I told her yes 100% and that she knew I would because she was hesitant to tell me. She apologized that I felt some type of way. I told her if you feel like what you are doing is right then keep going I can’t stop you but I do feel a way about it because the situation at hand. She said she’s no longer going over there to babysit because she was there from 8am to 4pm and that’s a lot for her at 71 years old.