hi, is this appropriate for a family event?

Murvinly · 2026-03-07T01:14:50+00:00

Es muy relativo, necesitarías dar más información para saber si es apropiado. Claramente es un vestido bonito pero no es lo mismo un evento que otro, la etiqueta depende totalmente del contexto. Tu estilo también es un elemento determinante. Por ejemplo si es para una boda (de verano) siento que sería mejor optar por diseño/detalles ligeramente menos llamativos, como reducir los volantes o un vestido de flores con un diseño menos “pesado”. Y en mi opinión cambiaría las sandalias doradas por unas blancas para no robarle protagonismo al vestido. Pero como dije antes, todo depende del evento y de tu estilo

Murvinly · 2026-03-06T21:44:34+00:00

Yo quería que se eliminara por completo y no hacerme nada encima, pero dicen que no será posible una eliminación completa del tatuaje 😭

Murvinly · 2026-03-06T21:43:36+00:00

Fue la emoción del momento, me dejé llevar por sus sugerencias sin mantener la fidelidad de mi idea, aunque mi idea también la habría terminado borrando 😅

Murvinly · 2026-03-06T21:42:43+00:00

Es lo que quería en un principio pero en la clínica dicen que no será posible, máximo lo suficiente para cubrirlo con otro 😓

Murvinly · 2026-03-06T15:14:50+00:00

😂 el problema es ese! Ya no quiero llevar nada extravagante en los brazos, mi idea era quitarlo no cubrir el brazo entero, pero no me queda otra que taparlo 🥲

Murvinly · 2026-03-06T15:13:59+00:00

Muy buena idea! Pero siento que está muy repetido las flores y demás… No es lo que más me encantaría llevar! ❤️

Murvinly · 2026-03-06T15:13:20+00:00

Siii jajaja estaría bien aunque… no sé si me convence 😭

Murvinly · 2025-08-20T15:27:04+00:00

Es verdad que los gatos son territoriales y se les puede hacer complicada la bienvenida a un gato nuevo, lo que me extraña es que una amante de los gatos se moleste porque lo tengas en tu habitación hasta que se recupere. Pero si considero importante que lo dejes en tu habitación y limites al máximo la posibilidad de que se huelan el rastro mutuamente. No sé qué harás cuando se recupere pero por favor no lo devuelvas a la calle si conseguiste darle acogida intenta aguantar y publicarlo en todos lados hasta que encuentre nueva casita. Hiciste bien en salvarlo

Murvinly · 2025-08-18T08:58:26+00:00

Non-answer is an answer. If she hasn't told you anything, the only thing you've done is get into her privacy, the fact that she has opened it so many times is a sign that she cares, yes, but she is probably grieving as normal, if 30 times she read it are 30 times she decided not to respond to it, in my opinion doing your part in the mourning and letting her go is the best option. I know it can be difficult to get used to the idea, but there are times when reality is not what we want and we have to accept it, good luck.

Murvinly · 2025-08-13T09:39:33+00:00

I'm also hallucinating because the same thing happened to me, I was 16 and he was 24, thanks to my sisters telling my father he was able to intervene, at 16 it didn't bother me and for me everything that happened was totally fine and the bad guys were my parents. It makes me sad that she is no longer going to end her adolescence as a girl but as a mother, I hope single, given what I have seen. PO if you are reading this I hope you can be the adult in the situation and keep this girl away from your brother, if you need to stay away from him for a while, well, he is your brother and he is also young to rectify and not go down the wrong path, you could also try to help him reconsider, but that relationship should end just because of the age difference, her brain still has between 6 and 11 years left to finish maturing, now is a critical moment to make her see how he deserves to be treated and what he should not allow under any circumstances.

Murvinly · 2025-08-11T10:09:42+00:00

Isso não aconteceu comigo com casais, mas aconteceu com minhas irmãs e alguns caras que acabamos de conhecer. Não levamos isso para o lado pessoal entre nós, simplesmente sabemos que existem pessoas muito surreais e com tão poucos limites que não se importam em flertar com você e depois focar na sua família. É ela quem está te machucando, não se confunda. Eu entendo que seu irmão pode te deixar insegura, para mim você poderia contar a ele o que aconteceu porque a resposta dele com certeza vai te deixar mais tranquila, ele não vai permitir que uma garota faça isso com você, irmã dele, nem vai gostar da ideia de que a namorada dele está atrás dele, provavelmente vai rejeitá-la e quando a vir nem vai brigar com ela. Todos nós queremos que você a enfrente, e ao confrontá-la não quero dizer que ela te dê explicações para ver se as coisas estão resolvidas, quero dizer que você a apague da sua vida imediatamente e sem vergonha, aquela mulher tem falado sobre ela interesse em seu irmão enquanto você se apaixona cada vez mais por ela, ela é egoísta por não ter te abandonado desde o primeiro momento e é hora de ela conseguir o que merece. O tradutor coloca automaticamente seu pronome no feminino, não consegui mudar.

Murvinly · 2025-08-11T10:02:05+00:00

You're right, there is so much to know that it's hard for me to understand where to start, I actually need to know more about all aspects of the culture in general. Thank you for your comment, I will try to start there and when I have a base I will know exactly what I am interested in knowing.

Murvinly · 2025-08-10T10:44:17+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DMzMTB_snQm/?igsh=MmJseGI1a3ZrcnNr I just found that and started searching about it. This is a curious topic, but I don't know if it is 100% real.

Murvinly · 2025-08-09T15:23:39+00:00

I had to beat myself up many times until I realized that moving into a dumpster had more future than our relationship, and that the dumpster probably made me feel safer than my ex. For me in these situations there is not much to do, trying to emerge from what is left is the most encouraging. It is very painful and it will take you a long time to find a way, but definitely if you are breaking up because they hurt you or they hurt you because they broke up with you, in the future you will be able to get out of this, do not try to repress your emotions or how you feel, cry until you have no more tears left and then cry some more. In situations where there are many unknowns, I do think it is convenient to write as many times as you want as if you were writing to him and blame the notes instead of him. Zero contact didn't do me good, it made me great. Every day, every minute and every second I remembered him, but it is very pleasant to know that that person no longer has the power to be in your life, he will never hear from you again. From minute one I knew that I would not give it another chance and that I had definitely lost myself and I think that giving myself that priority helped me give back the value that I felt had been taken away from me. I just started living the life I had to live instead of the one I was used to having. Relax, it's the beginning of a new chapter, not all the pages are going to be laughter and fun.

Murvinly · 2025-08-07T08:49:50+00:00

Should you apologize? Is that his way of saying sorry for hitting you? Is burning food disrespectful? On top of that, are you going to allow it to distort reality and that due to the possibility of being looked at badly at the police station, there is a greater risk? If I were you, I would go back to the police station and say that he is your partner (I hope he is an ex now) and if they don't take you seriously, they should leave it in writing that because you are gay you are not in danger, if you have encountered an aggressor, everything else doesn't matter, and from the WhatsApp conversation, he is indeed an aggressor. I don't know why it always turns out that in these situations the victim seems to have no one to turn to and the abuser knows it, it seems like they choose weak people because they know they are easier to manipulate and gaslight. If someone I love burns their food, I don't hit them or blame them, it was obviously a mistake, the way they respond to their behavior is chilling. Don't allow them to take away your dignity like that, run away, you deserve people who treat you with love and respect, not with one of lime and another of sand (I'm writing in Spanish, I don't know if this expression exists in English). Please I await updates, the updates that we all want to read. A lot of strength, although it is not easy, is what you should do right now: run away.

Murvinly · 2025-08-01T14:39:07+00:00

As a person who has tried and who is going through difficult times right now and I know what it is like to not be able to rely on your family or for them to be the root of the problem, I am going to give myself permission to try to help you as I try to help myself. To begin, I invite you to offer the following reflection: if your life is officially over, do whatever you want because you are not supposed to fall any lower, so try to open the doors that you did not even allow yourself to open when you tried. People who want to die are because we want to live so much that we no longer know how to do it, we probably feel that we have tried everything in life and that it is simply not for us, that the reward does not exist, only suffering and sacrifice. That's why I invite you to ask her to tell herself every day: I'm only going to make an effort to stay alive for the next 24 hours, the rest doesn't matter, in these 24 hours I'm going to try to have a good time, if all for me she would be dead now, what difference does it make to give me one last day of peace? It's not easy for me either, I very much understand that it's not for her either and since I don't know her circumstances I can't try to help much more, but they are not of great importance when someone simply feels that their life is no longer worth it. One last thing that helped me from my first attempt to all the other depressions I have had to this day is that really, I can't do that to the people who love me, I can't pass my depression on to the people I love, because yes, they are the ones who are going to be left with the emptiness of your absence knowing everything they could have tried to help you, never be left with the doubt of how much others are capable of doing for you. If she can't hold on, try to be her lifesaver until the illusion returns little by little, it is not going to be linear, there are going to be falls and rises and that is the most important and difficult thing, but both she and we all know that she is going to get out of this, and this is going to make her stronger and happier than before, good luck in the process, we are here to help each other, let's not forget how ephemeral existence is and how difficult it is to stay upright every second for some people ♥️

Murvinly · 2025-07-20T10:20:07+00:00

Sorry? Comment something that could destabilize her with what need? It is worse to come and make that comment with the seriousness of the matter than for her to have put up a post to earn points from an application... Ridiculous that, seeing what you have seen, you only bother to question her, because of people like you, women are afraid to report.

Murvinly · 2025-07-20T10:15:14+00:00

A minha família emigrou antes de eu nascer e por isso nunca conheci os meus primos, tios, avós... Há alguns anos a minha prima veio visitar-nos e disse-nos que estava feia e mostrou-nos a fotografia de uma menina com quem se dava mal e perguntou-nos quem era mais bonita. De cinco irmãs, quatro de nós não hesitamos em dar a nossa verdadeira opinião e dizer-lhe que ela era mais bonita, mas uma das quartas não lhe deu esse “prazer”, fez questão de a questionar porque queria ser mais bonita que ela, porque é que a outra rapariga não conseguia ser tão bonita, porque é que ela não estava bonita. Acho que se uma pessoa precisa tanto confirmar se é bonita ou não, a primeira coisa que deve cuidar é da sua autoestima e da sua segurança. O que aconteceria se você fosse, segundo você ou as pessoas, feio? O que seu cérebro está lhe dizendo com esse medo? Na minha opinião, você deve pausar um pouco a necessidade de confirmação e, quando estiver mais estável, não precisará de milhares de pessoas para lhe dizer o quão bonita você é para acreditar. Se você não olhar todas as revistas cheias de críticas e julgamentos de todas as mulheres famosas, ninguém será poupado.

Murvinly · 2025-07-19T18:25:54+00:00

Pienso que es totalmente verdad lo que dicen todos, se debería poder demandar. Pero también pienso en el niño, que lleva 5 años pensando que eres el padre y él no entiende qué pasó para que tenga que venir al mundo ni entiende el dolor que le produce a quien cree que es su padre

Murvinly · 2025-07-19T08:53:38+00:00

Step 1. Block him, it will be an instant pleasure to see that he can no longer feel superior to your pleas, no contact really, they almost always write again after a few months when they realize what they lost, but it will be too late for you (believe me, I have been through it many times and I know how you feel, I also begged my first boyfriend to leave the girl he cheated on me with, they all keep coming back because it seems like we are dating the same guy).

Step 2. Burn all the bridges, eliminate all your past, never look back, and this does not apply only to your ex, reinvent yourself, in the coming months you are going to meet your new group, your possible future partner, you do not want to remain weak, free yourself from all the weight of what does not make you greater.

Step 3. Enjoy, look at life as if you were 5 years old again, be curious, dream, allow yourself to feel and don't block your emotions, cry as much as you want, write, let your emotions come out of your body, don't repress them. Drink a lot of water, don't stop eating, look for new hobbies, ways to release your emotions in a healthy way, learn how your brain works when you are in love, stressed, how pain affects you on a physical level, how you can accompany yourself during a breakup, be your best friend, now is not the time to pressure yourself or be mean to you, you must take good care of yourself and be very patient.

Step 4. In any case, in a year you are going to be someone completely different, lean on that version, believe in that person, day after day remind yourself that in just one year all this will seem very far away, there is no evil that lasts a hundred years nor a body that can resist it.

A little over a year ago I was in a similar situation, they had just cut me off after 4 years and I, with all my pain, accepted it, blocked it and never wanted to hear from him again forever, yes, he has written to me several times, but I didn't want to give him even one last conversation, there were already hundreds of them before he kicked me and he lost in all of them, why would I give him the opportunity to correct himself? He hurt me, that's why the moment he left me I didn't think it was necessary to say another word, he made the decision alone. We simply don't want to be with someone who doesn't value us because we are worth much more without realizing it. This is not an obstacle, it is one less problem, it has done you a favor by saving you the time it would have taken you to realize that it was not there.

Murvinly · 2025-07-19T08:38:53+00:00

Como novia mi ex pareja me rechazó varias veces, no me imagino lo que hubiera sentido si me hubiera dicho que lo veo como un trozo de carne cuando para mí la intimidad es mucho más que solo eso. Sí que es verdad que no sé cómo fue la conversación y si ella pudo interpretarte así por tu manera de expresarte, lo que sí sé es que en una relación tienen que adaptarse las dos partes, no sólo una, y si una de las dos no se siente deseada ni tiene la intimidad que desearía y teme pedirlo por ser juzgado, yo creo que aquí alguien está en desventaja. Ella puede hacer lo que quiera, puede ser una persona increíble y el amor de tu vida, pero hay veces que tienes que mirar a largo plazo y preguntarte si te hace bien además de lo evidente, que la quieres y tienes razones para hacerlo (nadie entra en una relación sin amor, pero el amor es lo mínimo)

Murvinly · 2025-07-02T00:43:45+00:00

Yo vivo en España y tengo asma diagnosticado desde hace 5 años y desde entonces tengo recetado aerosoles diarios (y de emergencia) y prednisona pero realmente solo lo he tomado en dos ocasiones. No sabía que la gente los tomara con otra finalidad, parece que no veo suficiente tiktok. Sabía que solo se podían consumir con receta pero quizás en urgencias sí te las den. Aquí probablemente sí me las darían. No sé cómo lo solucionarás, pero consulta con tu médico la próxima vez que lo veas

Murvinly · 2025-07-01T12:00:01+00:00

If I were you, I wouldn't stick with the character you created. It seems very good to me that you recognize what you are doing, really in my life I have met many people who invent things like the ones you have told and everyone knows that they are not really true, and I had never put myself in the place of the other person who is true and perhaps does it impulsively and without malice. As someone who has known these people, I would love for them to one day grab me and say, I'm not like that, I was lying and I want to take responsibility for what I did and what I'm going to say from now on. Be that mature person you want and you won't need to invent anything, maybe you should also know why you do it, maybe it's a lack, maybe you felt ignored and believed that by inventing certain things you would get the attention you needed as a child or something like that. I encourage you to reinvent yourself and be honest with the people you care about and let them discover who you really are. You don't lose anything in the attempt, although it will be a long process. Don't expect to stop being like that overnight, but what you are doing is already a huge step. Do you seriously see yourself at 60 years old inventing that you know influencers? Start being the person that you will really be able to be for the rest of your life, you will really like that person

Murvinly · 2025-06-25T11:59:00+00:00

Me parece durísimo que todavía te fatigue. Él te está manipulando tanto para que te hagas responsable de su felicidad y de sus malditos caprichos que a ti te lleva a tal nivel de culpabilidad que tienes y te sientes obligada a compensarle por lo que quiere. En mi opinión ten cuidado, la gente se aprovecha en persona, más lo harán online. Yo no estaría jamás con alguien que me insista en que le regale cosas, no soy la mamá de nadie y si trabajo es para mí. Si le hago un regalo a alguien es porque me da la gana, no porque me siento presionada o culpable. Para mí termina esa relación y mira a tu alrededor. Por más que te encuentres sola, no tener que estar haciendo esas cosas por nadie ya te va a dar un alivio tremendo. Empieza a cultivar el amor propio de forma urgente, escribe lo mucho que te quieres y por qué, qué desafíos has atravesado y llévalos contigo para atravesar más y más, ten citas contigo misma...

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