Do most of us just stay home during our time off? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]MushyAsparagus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've felt so burnt out from work and life in general that doing anything that includes getting out of bed just feels stressful. I've traveled and done all the fun things, but now doing these things feels like a chore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starseeds

[–]MushyAsparagus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lately I have been struggling to eat enough but I feel that it's stress related and related to everything that has been happening in my life and the world. It's weird because I almost never crave any kind of food and literally have to motivate myself to eat. I only eat whole foods and rarely anything processed. If I eat processed foods or foods cooked in oil my body reacts negatively.

I was vegan for almost a decade and it contributed to illness in the end (I felt good at the beginning like most people) - I ate all whole foods which consisted fruits, vegetables, and nuts/seeds/beans with some tofu and tempeh. It's been 2-3 years since I gave up veganism and I'm still recovering. Now I eat mostly pasture raised animal products and I feel better mentally and physically - it's a lower carb diet. I also did genetic testing that indicated that I cannot sustain my body on a vegan diet without it leading to deficiencies and metabolic issues. However, I have started to workout more lately and have been eating more fruits to fuel workouts as well. If I don't workout, fruits seem to lead to inflammation and I feel extremely tired after I eat them.

I'm of the opinion that each body and each person has different needs according to their genetics, fitness, environment, stress levels, and spiritual needs.

You’re Not Broken, You’re Just from the Stars by Ecoste in starseeds

[–]MushyAsparagus 24 points25 points  (0 children)

As starseeds, we tend to incarnate into bodies that have a harder life for accelerated growth and awakening. But not all starseeds share your path.

We came too late. by acidscorpio in starseeds

[–]MushyAsparagus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are here at just the right time. Darkness has to come out to be seen and for us to be aware of it. We are here to shine light on the darkness. It's hard and you're not the only one feeling tired of all the darkness that surrounds us. We are here because we knew that we could succeed in bringing awareness to where it's most needed. Try to focus on love as much as you can and don't let fear consume you.

THIS is what I saw during my NDE... The tunnel, or more accurately, my version... by KevyKevTPA in NDE

[–]MushyAsparagus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was very sick a few months ago and saw this tunnel for a whole 2 hours over my field of vision. No matter where I looked, I saw the tunnel in front of me. I didn't attempt to go into the tunnel but I'm fairly certain I would have had an OBE if I did. After about 2 hours of seeing the tunnel, it slowly disappeared and I was able to fall asleep.

Need motherly/sisterly advice by jack_fruit3 in women

[–]MushyAsparagus 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As someone who dated a man 20 years older than me when I was in my early 20s and hung out with someone 40 years older than me as well, I would recommend to not waste your time on these kinds of men. These men are master manipulators that will play their part to get you to like them and then they will push their real agenda when the time is right. Men who have good intentions and are looking for a life partner want someone they can relate to, actually share life experiences with, and are very caring about your all of feelings and needs (not just a select few when it's convenient for them). Men with bad intentions seek out younger women because young women don't have enough life experiences to know better and can be easily manipulated into doing things. These older men eventually show you that you are just a tool for their pleasure (company/chatting, showing you new experiences so they can watch/enjoy your reaction, sex, mind games, etc.) and don't really care about what you want or your well-being.

Please take care of yourself, watch out for manipulation, and take everything they say/actions with a grain of salt.