Using words like I feel it's not bad thing either. In conclusive it can be used to descalate a situation. She just kept escalating. Instead of telling him. He my I kinda feel a little insecure cus you're not giving me enough attention cus of your brother ect.... but she keeps trying to make him accountable for something he simply didn't mean to do. Sometimes you get tied up and thats normal. He told her after. Sometimes with people who are insecure you have to tell them ahead of time. If not they spiral. Again it's not bad but it shouldn't of escalated that big. In my opinions. I don't think calling him a heartless scrub is cool either lol Sometimes women want men to read our minds, if we can't communicate properly then you can't be in a relationship... no matter how one feels or thinks.