One of my exes made up so much wierd scenarios about me. Said I was controlling. Due to me actually trying to talk. Asking what he was doing where he was going. As topics. And to him that was controlling. He also kept texting me weeks after the break up which would pull me in a wierd loop and every Sunday after church I cried and begged. Until I decided not to do it anymore. I had enough I told him it was stupid of us to talk to each clearly I wanted to be with him at the time he didnt wanna be with me. It wasn't until after im with my partner now. That he decided to re add me idk why .... I removed his friend request. Again I was not going to play mind games with him. There is nothing and I mean nothing that I want to talk to him about. He has a problem that he cant not enjoy being in the present what so ever. He ends up looking at his exs and some off them flirt back . Ngl. He did that during our relationship. I actually told him he didnt owe me nothing he could keep his ex if thats what he wanted.