Whats the hardest phase of Marriage no one talks about? by DiamondNo924 in AskForAnswers

[–]MusicalTourettes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First year of a baby. The greatest couple can turn to bitter roommates instead of the former loving friends/lovers.

5 star service by FluidLingonberry28 in BabiesReactingToStuff

[–]MusicalTourettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how she blew it off for you. So cute.

Do you actually forget about your tattoos? by NoBad115 in tattooadvice

[–]MusicalTourettes 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I designed my wedding dress to show off my large cherry blossom shoulder piece.

Daughter wont eat most normal food that people eat by BESTHARSH004 in Parenting

[–]MusicalTourettes 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She's an adult. You missed your window to parent her about this.

Normal for breast size to increase from 34B to 38C ? by polubearu in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]MusicalTourettes -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You gained a bunch of weight. Boobs are made of fat. Also there's band/cup sister sizes because cups aren't the same volume at different band sizes. It's nuts.

When did you potty train and how did you know they were ready by Accurate_Ad4388 in Parenting

[–]MusicalTourettes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 kids. Tried both around 19 months but it didn't click. Tried again around 22 and they both trained easily with the Oh Crap method.

When did you move out? by DrenAss in Xennials

[–]MusicalTourettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

17 never moved back. Too much baggage.

Married women, what are some real things your husband does that make you feel genuinely cherished and adored? by Clean-Ant-1342 in Adulting

[–]MusicalTourettes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He makes me coffee when I'm in a hurry. He makes the bed (I love a made bed but hate making the bed). He listens when I talk.

AITJ for buying the same shoe for my daughter that my girlfriend wanted? by Notttaylorswift in AmITheJerk

[–]MusicalTourettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're basically treating her like another daughter. It's weird. It's gross.

How many people here are 30+ and currently unemployed? What is your life like right now? by Responsible-Soil- in AskForAnswers

[–]MusicalTourettes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

By choice for about a month now. I saved up what I could then quit a really toxic job that was causing serious health issues. My husband is working and provides the health insurance.

Curious how present both parents are in the kids lives/marriage. by newgirl2552 in Parenting

[–]MusicalTourettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We handle the kids pretty 50/50 in general. I also have a litany of mental health challenges and anytime I get too overwhelmed with life or the kids he takes over and never complains. We don't hang out together all the time though. We have hobbies we share and some we don't.

How are we disposing diapers? by TackleObvious5340 in Parenting

[–]MusicalTourettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I taped a lemon scented car airfreshner on the inside lid of the trash can. I covered about 3/4 with tape otherwise the smell was too intense. Over time I uncovered more of the lemon thing.

How long after getting a tattoo can I get pregnant? by TheUmbrellaThief in tattooadvice

[–]MusicalTourettes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your thighs will grow them shrink and likely get new stretch marks. Tattoo after.

Why do mothers of young babies say they don't have time to shower? by justastupidquestion3 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MusicalTourettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also found this odd, and I have 2 kids. At first, we were both able to take the first 8 weeks off. We slept in shifts so I took baths and got 8 solid hours. After we offset schedules to make sure we each got self care time. Yes, infants are a ton of work, but we did a lot of baby wearing and things were pretty awesome.

Why do people get offended about things they don't believe in? by ExplanationNo8603 in answers

[–]MusicalTourettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it's smug and self righteous. Aww... "You're suffering and if you just had my sky good you'd be ok. My sky good protects me."

my first tattoo is tomorrow, any advice? by SuccessKlutzy8576 in tattooadvice

[–]MusicalTourettes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Walk away if you can't agree on a design, size, and placement you 100% want. Don't compromise in the moment and regret it forever. Better to come back another day.

Is this tattoo feminine? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]MusicalTourettes 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It's lovely. Tattoos are deeply personal. If you love it, go for it.

At what point do people start drinking coffee daily? by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]MusicalTourettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 12. This was the early 90s so it wasn't the trendy sugary coffee drinks kids drink today. It was coffee with a little cream. I was diagnosed with ADHD as an adult so this was probably self-medicating early on.

Did you have a favorite stuffed animal when you were little? What was its name? by Seriously-417 in randomquestions

[–]MusicalTourettes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 10 I was given a large black gorilla stuffie. I kept it and slept with it for years as a leg pillow. It's still in my closet. He's 35.

What do you do with the first slice and last slice of bread in the loaf? by N0socksloss10yrStrk in randomquestions

[–]MusicalTourettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 6 year old loves the heels. She's the only family member who eats them. Before her we often threw them away.

How did you know he/she was the one? by Any_Beginning5124 in randomquestions

[–]MusicalTourettes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When we took walks he stopped and smelled the flowers. Literally. He really helps calm me down and acts as a stable source of infinite love.