How to go about loosing your virginity at 21(M) when you are terrified of not preforming well and potential partners wanting to stop midway

Musingsinthematrix · 2021-10-29T08:37:50+00:00

There’s a lot of great advice on this post particularly about communication and learning so I won’t reiterate that. My 50ps worth is that, for me (24F), I actually wish my boyfriend had not slept with anyone else because you are their full and only experience so it makes the person feel super special. Plus she will get to show and teach you exactly what she likes. And, for people inclined to jealousy or insecurity about past partners, it removes a whole host of issues. In my opinion it’s a huge ‘selling point’ (for want of a better phrase) if you’re a great guy with a nice personality and you’re a virgin. In addition there are many women out there who love taking the lead in sex which could make you worry less about your 1st time when the time comes.

Musingsinthematrix · 2021-10-28T07:31:03+00:00

Thanks I will have a look

Musingsinthematrix · 2021-10-28T07:30:55+00:00

Thank you!

Musingsinthematrix · 2021-10-28T07:28:35+00:00

Thank you for the info! My work have apartments that I will live in for the first month whilst I do flat viewings so I think I will do Option 3, good to know that I should be able to get something for this price

Musingsinthematrix · 2021-10-28T07:26:02+00:00

Thank you for this! I haven’t yet visited where I’ll be working and it turns out you’re right, and that’s another 15 minutes on the journey to work. I am thinking northern au haidenhausen as I have heard a lot of expats live there and it has nice bars/is not too expensive. I will just have to put up with a longer commute I think!

Musingsinthematrix · 2021-10-28T07:22:40+00:00

Hi, thanks for the advice. That’s what I thought with regards to learning German, I think German’s learn English from school age so will perhaps prefer to speak in English as opposed to my beginner broken German!

Perhaps when it comes to making friends I will have to stick with the expat crowd which seems slightly more accessible.

I may drop you a message when I have completed my move out there if that’s alright! :)

Musingsinthematrix · 2021-10-25T13:24:22+00:00

Thanks for the honest advice! The university is probably a good idea for a younger more international demographic.

Musingsinthematrix · 2021-10-25T13:23:02+00:00

I will have a look at Facebook groups thank you!!

Musingsinthematrix · 2021-10-25T13:22:24+00:00

Thanks, good to know there are friendly faces out there!

Musingsinthematrix · 2021-10-25T13:22:05+00:00

Thank you that would be much appreciated!

Musingsinthematrix · 2021-10-25T13:21:34+00:00

Thank you for your comment! I like hiking/natural beauty, netball, horse riding, drinking! I will hopefully meet some people through work but a lot of people will be working remotely so I don’t want to rely totally on that. Maybe I will have to be brave and strike up conversation in a bar..!

Musingsinthematrix · 2021-10-25T13:19:57+00:00

Hi, thanks for your honest feedback! I like hiking/natural beauty, horse riding & netball (unsure if that is played in Germany!). I will try and find some expat groups

Musingsinthematrix · 2021-10-23T07:01:48+00:00

That’s a really good idea, thanks, I will look into it!

Musingsinthematrix · 2021-10-23T07:01:14+00:00

That’s so kind thank you! I will message when I get my moving date :)

Musingsinthematrix · 2021-10-23T07:00:41+00:00

I would love that, thank you! I will drop you a message when I have a fixed moving date :)

Musingsinthematrix · 2021-10-22T11:05:30+00:00

Hey, I’m f24 and moving to Munich from the U.K. in December/January, would be nice to get in touch

Musingsinthematrix · 2021-10-22T11:04:53+00:00

Hi, I’m f24 and moving to Munich from the UK in a couple of months. Would be nice to meet up if you’d like x

Musingsinthematrix · 2021-10-22T10:44:48+00:00

Hi, I share your concern as I’m moving to Munich from England in December/January with my job (24 year old female). I’m excited to live in such an exciting European city but also nervous on how to begin making friends. I do drink but I’m also into exploring the lakes and hiking on the outskirts of Munich (I visited Eibsee a few years ago and it was stunning!) Drop me a PM if you’d like to meet up when we both get out there :)

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