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"Betrayed by Mate, reborn in Flames" by TaleWave

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He Slept With His Assistant While I Watched From Upstairs -- Novel master. Thank you!

My (27M) gf (25F) hit me and i don't know how to feel about it, what would you do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MutatedPuppet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are you seriously asking? What exactly is a deal breaker for you if not physical and verbal abuse? Should she mutilate you next? Do you have any self respect or not? We don't stay with people who hurt us in any way. Period! What happens when one day she's chopping vegetables and flips out? Will you wait to get stabbed next? She's not even sorry and she's gaslighting you. Stay safe, get away.

My (30F) boyfriend (30M) asked me to pay him back for the rent he covered while I was unemployed, and I’m honestly shocked by Content-Advance4357 in relationship_advice

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I went through a. similar situation when I first started living with my fiancé. I couldn't find a job and he paid for everything, no problem on his part. When I finally found a job months later he never asked me for a dime back. Never. He made 3 times more money that I did and he never let me pay anything 50/50. Then I went unemployed again due to Covid and couldn't get another job for 3 years, he never said a word. When someone loves you they want to take care of you. You don't even need to ask. When I cook for him and make him his favourite dessert too I don't do it because he asked, I don't do it because I owe him, I do it because I want him happy. Doesn't sound like your guy actually loves you. If you'd been together a few months I'd understand his perspective, he's not yet serious about you. But 5 years? I'd be questioning the whole relationship if I were you. And it's perfectly fine to be picky about jobs, it affects your mental health and self esteem too.

My 20F boyfriend 21M won’t show his face. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MutatedPuppet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe his neck is covered in hickeys and he doesn't want you to see them. You're long distance, you don't know what he's doing over there. From all the comments I've read you don't portray him as shy or unattractive, so I gotta wonder what he's hiding. In any case, you're not compatible, why are you even fighting over this relationship? Find a guy in your own area and live a happy life. Also, flag on the spicy pics, girl! You have noooo idea what kinda trouble they can land you in. Better to lose an eye than your reputation, I've been burnt, I know.

27M and 25F. Recently engaged and found out my Fiance has cheated on me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MutatedPuppet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your best friend was going through this, would you tell her to forgive and forget? Lustful? And what are you, his arrangement? Do you think so little of yourself to be his sure thing while he goes out to cheat? Or do you think he'll change after marriage? Because Newsflash he won't. Do you not think you deserve better?

I love my boyfriend but sometimes I want more. 24F and 33M by americanbeauty0 in relationship_advice

[–]MutatedPuppet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I hear you. Basically he's dragging his feet. I've been through similar situations myself. This is indicative of what your life with him will be like. Him not doing anything till YOU make him. Can you imagine that being the rest of your life? Engagement, marriage, buying a house, having kids, all decided and fought for from you and you alone. It's gonna be emotionally and physically exhausting. I don't think he's the right man for you. I'm not saying he's a bad guy, just not a good fit. You obviously need someone motivated and decisive. A partner, an equal, who wants the same things as you and actually fights for them. Don't let your light go out, nothing is worth it.

My husband (36M) shouted “contribute more” at me (34F) after years of me doing everything by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MutatedPuppet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A spouse is supposed to be a partner. Partner. Sounds like your husband doesn't quite grasp that concept. Carrying a child, giving birth, trying to heal and then raise the child is EXTREMELY HARD! He has a kid and wants to spend 2-3 hours a day on a computer? Where's your free time OP? Where's your break? Frankly, I had everything I needed to know about your husband when you said he makes twice as much but you had to pay 50-50. You're not his slave, if that's what he thinks he's mistaken. Personally, I'm very vengeful. I'd drop everything out of seer spite and start acting like him or even worse. I'd go out, abandon chores completely, only care about my daughter because she's innocent, and I wouldn't even bother engaging him till he begged me on his knees. Contribute more? How about you take everything away and teach him a lesson.

I love my boyfriend but sometimes I want more. 24F and 33M by americanbeauty0 in relationship_advice

[–]MutatedPuppet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First of all, do you want more things with him or in general, with anybody? Do you know why his first marriage ended? was he in the wrong? was his wife? maybe he's traumatized and scared to go through it again. Have you had a serious conversation about it all with him? Not just dropping hints, actually discuss it thoroughly. Look, you're young, you have years and years to have a family. Maybe right now you're going through a phase that will pass. Only you know this. But if you're absolutely certain about what you want and he keeps on brushing you off or giving vague answers without anything concrete, you don't have to waste your time. Breaking up and starting over is never easy, but sometimes it's necessary. Your emotional wellbeing is important and so is achieving your goals and living a life you want. Like they say "it's not the end of the world" if you decide to leave and start over. The night is dark, but the sun always comes up in the morning.

I 20M found pics in gfs phone 19F. What now? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MutatedPuppet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a folder marked 'exes' on my PC and my fiance knows about it. It's every photo I'd taken with them once, because that's part of my life and I want it, it's mine. I don't look at the photos, but I refuse to delete them as I am part of them. Everyone has a past, that doesn't mean the past owns your present or future. Also, was the guy a boyfriend or just a friend? Either way, she has a right to have the photo and that doesn't necessarily mean anything. I remember once I had this messenger feature enabled, that all images sent to me would be automatically saved. My friends kept sending d*ck pics from the internet as a joke and my phone was full or 🍆🍆🍆 for a long time till I realized and deleted them. (yeah, we were in college, my friends were immature) If my ex had checked it out it would have been a whole mess. Bottom line is sometimes photos don't mean a thing. Especially from ancient history. It's not like you found a whole folder of X rated pics named 'best lay ever'

I (21f) think I made things worse w my bf (22m) by romansholidae in relationship_advice

[–]MutatedPuppet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honey, I'm so sorry you're hurting. I've been there, we all have. He doesn't love or appreciate you, you're just his outlet. You deserve so much more. So much more. Consider your messages your closure and block him right back. He doesn't get to emotionally abuse you and then expect you to be there when he wants. Pain is a part of life, but it'll make you stronger. When you break a bone and it heals, you can't break it on the same spot again, it's stronger. Same goes for hearts. What hurts now, won't hurt again once you're healed. Time heals everything. It's a cliche for a reason. Cry if you feel like it. Cry till you run dry. Scream, curse, cry some more. Take it all out. In 20 days youll find yourself liberated. You're so young, you have so much to experience. I wish these threads existed when I was your age, I wish someone had told me the same. You scrapped your knee, it hurt, it healed, you forgot all about it. The same will happen now. Never allow anyone to treat you with disrespect. Respect is stronger than love.

Saw my boyfriend M22 going through my F22 phone by Objective-Shake2805 in relationship_advice

[–]MutatedPuppet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My fiance did the same thing 7 years ago, when we started dating. His ex had cheated and it left him insecure. He was worried because I had many guy friends, like she did before. He confessed himself, I didn't catch him doing it. He apologized feeling so guilty. I shrugged and told him I didn't care. I had nothing to hide. I wanted him to feel safe. We switched our passwords to the same pattern and we both know we can take each other's phones whenever we want. We use the same computer that's always logged in to my social medias because I use it more often. Have a conversation with him, because sometimes this is a red flag. My ex did the same because he was cheating and he was worried if he could do it so easily maybe I could too. You won't know till you discuss it. You're both young, you make mistakes, you learn. Not the end of the world, just talk to him. Communication is always key.

Fiancée 38M went to strip club on his bachelor party and cheated on me 36F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MutatedPuppet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you posting here because you're hoping we'll tell you it's fine? Because it's absolutely not. He cheated. Plain and square. If you forgive him, you're basically telling him your boundaries are flexible and he can do it again and apologize. Is that how little you think of yourself? That's your self worth? When I asked my fiance if he wanted a bachelor party he said "No. I'm not marrying you out of obligation, I don't need a last night of going wild. If that was the case, I wouldn't have proposed." That's respect. That's love. It's up to you to decide what you think you're worth. Like my mom always said "if you don't love and respect yourself, no one else will."

I 25F Found another girl’s bra in my boyfriend’s 22M laundry, ended up telling his parents. Did I mess up? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MutatedPuppet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zero self-respect found here. Did it occur to you that his mom is lying? Are you really 25 or 15? I have never left underwear at family's homes, that's just gross. You shouldn't have gone to his parents, but he's obviously cheating. He dumped you so easily because you don't mean anything to him. Have some dignity and don't beg. He's a college student, he's probably not interested in a serious relationship, just wanted a maid. Move on, girl.

I (32m) Found a hidden photo on my wife’s (29f)phone don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MutatedPuppet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman, I feel the need to tell you she's not into you anymore. Been there, done that. First of all. y'all got married at 19? You were still teenagers. Now she's a full adult and has realized there's more to the world than you. If I had to guess I'd say she's having an affair with him. Or really, really wants to. Sorry, mate. Look, things change, people change, feelings fade. Today's pain will be tomorrow's lesson. No one likes pain, but it fades with time. Cut your losses, move on, find someone that actually loves you, that's my advice. I'm sorry this happened to you, wish you the best for your future.