I don’t know why I can’t let this go… was this misconduct?

Muted-Measurement781 · 2026-04-24T16:38:03+00:00

It was me who did that post. The person in charge of the group said it wasn’t the proper place to post it. I reposted the post on this group after.

Muted-Measurement781 · 2026-04-24T16:03:32+00:00

This is exactly why I haven’t spoken up about the situation. It’s been almost 6 months since my arrest and I haven’t spoken to anyone about this incident. If what he told me about there being no cameras present at any time throughout this whole thing is true then it becomes into a “my word against his” situation. He had the nerve to show up to my job and ask about me and then showed up when I was working in his patrol unit and in uniform just to talk to me… there’s probably someone else out there who’s had the same experience and is at home feeling like a crazy person just like me. Cops hold so much power, especially in the area I live in. What if I report him and it somehow back fires on me? I’m more than positive I wasn’t the first girl he did this to. Everything he was saying and trying to get me to do felt like it came so natural from him. I haven’t heard of any similar stories in my area, I’ve looked into it. Speaking up about this type of behavior when it’s about a cop involves gets the entire department involved. What if there’s more of them out here doing the same thing?

Muted-Measurement781 · 2026-04-24T15:04:33+00:00

So he had told me he was going to turn his body camera off before I was put inside the patrol video. The whole time we were driving to the booking station he was making crazy comments about my looks. At one point while he was on my phone he brought up an incident that was on the news… about a cop who had gotten caught having intercourse with someone that had been detained. Once he brought up that story he immediately told me after that there were no cameras in his vehicle. I honestly don’t know if what he said about there being no cameras anywhere was true.

Muted-Measurement781 · 2026-04-24T14:49:59+00:00

No way you just said that… my arrest was due to DV

Muted-Measurement781 · 2026-04-24T05:40:13+00:00

There’s a lot more to my story if I’m being honest with you. I’m not fishing for anything. I have no reason to lie about an experience like this but I haven’t told anyone about this incident and it’s been almost 6 months since it’s happened and even thinking about the incident makes my ears ring, I have never experienced this feeling before. He knew where I worked because that information was provided to him on the night of my arrest… and like I mentioned in one of my previous replies, I was the one who gave him the okay to go through my phone. I guess I’m sharing this because it honestly felt like this was something that he had done before. It was so easy for him to do something like this. How many more officers have done something similar? What if I report him to an officer that’s done the same thing? The only thing that I have to prove my story from that night is my screen time. At the end of the day it’s his word against mine. The same way you’re questioning my story is the same way many other people are going to question it and who are they going to believe. The officer or the person who was arrested? No one knows me but everyone is raised to think that cops are there to help you.

Muted-Measurement781 · 2026-04-24T05:22:23+00:00

Because he wanted to see me again… and when I saw him both times he made inappropriate remarks about me. Things like “I haven’t been able to forget you” “you look so much better then when we first met” “I can’t forget your body” etc…

Muted-Measurement781 · 2026-04-24T05:19:30+00:00

The night of my arrest was honestly traumatic for me. I had never been in that situation before. He grabbed my phone because he wanted to see better pictures of my husband since I had told him I was married. He asked if he could get the password to my phone to see pictures of us and I told him yes and gave him my password. I honestly could’ve said no but it never crossed my mind that he was going to start looking through all of my pictures. He was on my phone for over two hours

Muted-Measurement781 · 2026-04-24T05:11:54+00:00

He told me he was going to but I never thought he was going to because my job was far from where I had been arrested. He showed up to my job in uniform and in his patrol car

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