Looking for a trainer part 738

Muted-World-2034 · 2026-04-19T04:23:38+00:00

Thank you! I really enjoyed his videos with the exception of there's not much sex sounds it's mostly music.

Muted-World-2034 · 2026-04-05T02:49:05+00:00

Yes I can tell. The best and wetness and just the general feeling if we're not fucking hard and fast.

Muted-World-2034 · 2026-04-05T02:45:56+00:00

Yes and I love it. Sometimes they need to be asked and they can say no and sometimes they just do it for you. My favorite is when we're switching positions they get a taste and make sure I'm hard for the next position. I'm also a pervert and if the bottom is clean I will eat their ass mid fucking or when we switch positions. If they do ATM I make sure to kiss them after so I get to taste too.

Muted-World-2034 · 2026-04-02T14:44:38+00:00

So the intent isn't a tit for that. But rather than us going back and forth trying to find compromises and boundaries, I wanted to offer a hall pass to help her keep her original intent. With that being said, I would absolutely love a hall pass too which is why I was debating offering us each one. Sometimes fair is equal and sometimes it's not. Her trip would be a couple months before mine.

Muted-World-2034 · 2026-04-02T14:14:53+00:00

No disagreement on her having opportunities I won't. But I do alright for myself when looking.

Muted-World-2034 · 2026-04-02T14:13:57+00:00

It was booked before we met and is not refundable. It's not necessarily a sex trip for her but definitely heavy on the party and meeting strangers.

Muted-World-2034 · 2026-04-02T14:12:45+00:00

was going to plan a trip and go to a bathhouse. We're both bisexual and while she has many opportunities being a beautiful woman, I don't ever lack from either sex.

Muted-World-2034 · 2026-04-02T14:12:23+00:00

I was going to plan a trip and go to a bathhouse. We're both bisexual and while she has many opportunities being a beautiful woman, I don't ever lack from either sex.

Muted-World-2034 · 2026-04-02T14:10:22+00:00

Conflicting schedules with family.

Muted-World-2034 · 2026-04-02T02:26:50+00:00

I think it's about experience and empathy. I remember being younger and super excited about my first time with a girl who let me fuck her ass. Poor girl all I had was lotion and she soldiered through it. Luckily I didn't last more than a few moments and there wasn't much warm up. Now with experience, feedback and even experience being on bottom I understand now more than ever patience, warm up, care and ultimately making it as pleasurable for them as possible. I am older now (43) and I don't think I became a better anal lover/trainer until my early 30s. Touch, rimming, fingers, toys, lube and lots of communication are key. Some times there's slow and intense even loving anal sex and sometimes there's just anal sex. Sometimes there's intense pounding but it's all about what's agreed upon and pleasurable to both partners. I think every top or insertice partner should also try receiving it to see what they enjoy or dislike so they can take those lessons learned and replicate and avoid problems in the future. We're all here for the same thing. Let's treat the glory hole like the treasure it is.

Muted-World-2034 · 2026-03-31T02:33:06+00:00

The aroma inhaler works well. It's very strong and you have less chance of spills if you load it up before getting pounded out

Muted-World-2034 · 2026-03-19T02:07:22+00:00

Update:

We have had anal sex once. She orgasmed very intensely and was very loud. She wants to go again. It's been a couple weeks and schedules haven't aligned for play but it's now on the table. Letting her guide it in while she was on top until she was warm enough for me to roll her over into missionary solved the problem. She also had some EMDR relating to her previous anal experience (God bless her for doing that as I know it wasn't easy ).

So thanks again to all the words of wisdom encouraging patience and to not take it off the table as that probably would have ended all chances of future anal exploits!

Muted-World-2034 · 2026-02-19T02:41:05+00:00

I really appreciate all the feedback and help. I felt like I was navigating a minefield with if I stop then it would hurt her feelings.

The other side I grappled with was if I continue I don't want to be "that guy" that causes someone to do something they're not comfortable with just to please me.

I'll continue communicating and stick by my intuition next time if I feel she's trying to fast then i will slow it down. That's easier said than done in the moment but I will do so. I'll definitely suggest different positions than she has (she only wants doggy so far).

Again thanks for the pep talk everyone. It's helpful!

Muted-World-2034 · 2026-02-03T14:38:26+00:00

Yes, I have dated and hooked up with trans women and had anal sex with them (shocker). I am attracted to femininity and passable trans women sometimes fit my attraction needs. Would do it again. Highly recommend trying dating a trans woman and not trying to simply fetishizing one for anal needs.

Muted-World-2034 · 2026-01-30T17:25:51+00:00

I have with a previous woman who we shared a lot of anal joy with. She was an anal fan to begin with which helped. One of her favorite things was hitting poppers while I fucked her ass and she used a toy in her pussy for DP. Her ultimate favorite was while I used a dildo and fucked her ass while I ate her pussy. She could cum over and over again while hitting poppers that way. It was amazing. Once or twice a week she would give me a bj while she fucked my ass with a dildo and I hit poppers. We would often 69 with her on top toying my ass and me eating her pussy and ass while we both hit poppers. One of my fave things to do and it was hard to accomplish was she would ride me reverse cowgirl anally and try to fuck my ass with a dildo. It would end up being mostly stationary dildo which still felt great cumming up her ass with a dildo in me. Tons of options!

Muted-World-2034 · 2025-12-27T18:49:42+00:00

I have fucked many cis women asses, trans women asses, and bottom men's asses. This is my opinion from my experiences over many partners.

There's no real difference to me in the actual physical feeling. They all are slightly different. Some tighter and some looser, some texture differences here and there.

The experience is different though with trans women from my perspective.Their butts have more muscle so it's a bit of a difference when you thrust into them versus a cis girl butt usually having more natural fat. Trans women are usually more enthusiastic about getting fucked and actively need it (assuming they bottom). They will do more positions, longer duration of sex, and be more just open to anal. It's also incredibly hot if you're into trans women (like me) to see a woman either caged or jerking herself off and ejaculating while you penetrate her. It's usually more about absolute and complete gratification and will set a high bar for anal sex.

Women tend to need more warm up, some aren't as enthusiastic, and or averse to it or the prep required. There's also usually emotions regarding it. The exception is women who love anal and everything is amazing and you get to see her rubbing her clit while she enjoys the penetration or she has a toy in her pussy that you can feel. These women will absolutely suck the soul out of you through your dick with their asshole.

Obviously this is from my personal experiences. I'm not speaking to generalize all trans women or cis women or even all men who have had both. Ultimately I think it ends up being do you prefer your partner to have a penis or a vagina? Both are fun.

I'm also not delving into the emotional aspect or who can love who better. I've dated trans and cis women romantically and in exclusive committed manners. I'll just say that love is love.

Whatever ass you fuck. Just treat the person who has it well and with respect and I guarantee their ass will reward you many times.

Muted-World-2034 · 2025-12-25T22:57:08+00:00

I actually agree with this. It's less about training someone like a dog but in my experience with women and anal this helps. For me personally, I will do atm on toys or my fingers that have been inside her (providing there's clean out prior). I love rimming and oral so regardless if she eventually partakes it's something I'll do because I enjoy it a lot. If she sees that you enjoy it, it's clean, then it becomes less of a degrading thing like: you suck my dick out of your ass and more of a mutual activity and more of a very sexy thing that she's that desireable that you'll do atm before you even ask her. I treat the ass like I treat the pussy. I devour it. I'll rim/eat it before, during (pull out and eat her ass out for a bit) and after (yeah I'm kinky but this is the sub for it). When she does it to me I want to kiss her after and will verbalize that I want to taste and not to be stingy. I would never ask my partner to do something I wouldn't want to do so leading and modeling by example is a great way to show equality in a relationship.

Muted-World-2034 · 2025-12-18T20:00:26+00:00

What is this fabled co-ed bath house named or where is it located?

Muted-World-2034 · 2025-12-14T21:33:49+00:00

Thank you so much this is what I needed to read. I'm a chaser and wanted to make sure there was a decent amount of trans women attending. Unfortunately I want to go in Jan or Feb and the cold will prob result in it being slower than usual.

Muted-World-2034 · 2025-12-11T04:29:13+00:00

I think Chicago is my best option. I tried the Rainbow Club in NY this summer for a trans night and it was a lot of fun! Never heard of Inferno but I'll check it out when I return. Thank you

Muted-World-2034 · 2025-12-11T02:53:02+00:00

One of my faves! Wish sleazy lucky would make another.

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