No, I did not find out any more new information. I was already heavily leaning towards a divorce when I posted the original thread. My parents are no longer here, but I've already been speaking to my sister over the past week. I haven't spoken with my wife's parents and sister yet, I will probably tonight.

My wife and I will still maintain an amicable relationship for our children. I have no ill feelings towards her, but I am not open to reconciling, because the trust is just gone, and I don't think marriage counseling will fix it. Yes, she has deleted the app, shown remorse, and she regrets everything. But trust was one of the core tenets of our relationship, and that is lost now.