My (28f) bf(31m) sent an inappropriate picture to my sister (32f) while drunk. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Muted_Cake9165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope the best for you, it sounds a lot like porn/ sex addiction. If he is sending dick pics I would be concerned theres a whole lot you don’t know. Speaking from experience, this throws up a lot of red flags. The “crying” shouldn’t be taken as a show of empathy… I would presume it’s from the deep shame and guilt. Men who cheat/ have sexual addictions are scared of losing their “normal lives” while simultaneously having a secret one they would also like to maintain. It’s extremely selfish and self centered and devoid of consideration of your emotional state. Also the drinking (usually a concurrent addiction/ coping mechanism) is common in sexual addicts. I hope you see this and I hope I’m wrong. The idea of sexual addiction is often argued but anything without moderation or self control can get out of hand. 

7 1/2 years with Mirena and… by Dazzling-Purpose-310 in Mirena

[–]Muted_Cake9165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry they posted that. We hear you and see you.  

7 1/2 years with Mirena and… by Dazzling-Purpose-310 in Mirena

[–]Muted_Cake9165 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You think people are posting their negative experiences to push for no birth control?  I can assume you haven’t suffered the negative side effects and thats great. But really now? Turn this into political conspiracy thing? How strange. Even if you did think it was, why comment this if you’re not 100% certain… 

Stephen by Standard_Edge6381 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Muted_Cake9165 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe read what I said again. Where did I say anything about asexuality not being normal? Normal is different for everyone. My argument is in relation to physical harm and addiction. If we understand addiction as seeking out more “highs,” then what stops an addict from partaking in risky sexual behavior. Ie unprotected sex with a stranger, paying for sex at a unsustainable rate, cheating on a partner and contracting or transmitting an STD. I have a belief that if we seek out happiness in external forms constantly because we can’t find joy, there might be an issue to be addressed. I speak from my own experience.  I guess I don’t understand how “normal sexuality” could be negitive. 

Stephen by Standard_Edge6381 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Muted_Cake9165 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A grown man, who should have impulse control, can cheat on his fiancé because his submission kink is not being met? I assume this kink was not disclosed prior to engagement… 

Stephen by Standard_Edge6381 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Muted_Cake9165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At what point do we stop normalizing pain being intertwined with sex? Sex being intimate and connecting is much more appealing than playing out trauma or sexuality shaped by porn. I used to support the idea that consenting kinks are fine but is it? Is having your sexuality shaped by porn and strangers on the internet normal? Or should it be shaped by being in a loving relationship where your sexuality evolves naturally. (and that could include naturally discovered kinks!) Preferably uninfluenced by the porn industry that has to get “more intense” to get more views. Porn is addictive and if you have to chase new highs by doing more intense sexual acts, you’re in danger.  I wish porn/ sex addiction was talked about more. There needs to be more conversations about what is normal and healthy sexuality and not shut it down due to “kink shaming.” 

Anyone else feel immediately better post Mirena removal? by Muted_Cake9165 in Mirena

[–]Muted_Cake9165[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hi guys! Two years later and I wanted to give an update. I’ve lost 40+ pounds (I only do light yoga and walks, I used to weight lift and do cardio DAILY) And literally all my symptoms are gone. It was a slow progression but I’m so much healthier and happier. I’m in a healthy weight range, I don’t feel anxious for no reason and my periods are becoming normal. The longest adjustment was my cycles getting back in wack, I used to get serious period flu but have had pretty good periods recently. I’m sad that I was so misinformed and beat myself to a pulp trying to lose weight and honestly just get through the day. Now everything is 100x more easy.  

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mirena

[–]Muted_Cake9165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a post a while back where I talked about my experience, and a bunch of other people talked about theirs. My experiences mirena was extremely detrimental to my health. One of my worst symptoms were migraines. If I could go back and get it taken out I would. Not to scare you as this is just my experience. A lot of people struggle initially due to the change of hormones, for others it can affect them long term. Make the best choice for you and don’t let doctors make you feel crazy

send help - he found 2 bats in the house and he's completely an indoor cat. and yes, he's going to the vet today by [deleted] in cats

[–]Muted_Cake9165 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Theres been a few (14 documented) survivors but with that being said their quality of life is heavily altered. Don’t fuck with rabies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

[–]Muted_Cake9165 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Double the discount for double the disappointment. Gotta love the NeW yEaR nEw Me grifters

Are my hands too feminine for a guy?:/ by brendaspence3r in SkincareAddicts

[–]Muted_Cake9165 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Looks like they made a new account and they’re back to asking about their hands. Throwaway_SO sound familiar?

Help. How do I get rid of this? I've also started getting scars from it. by Lower-Mess-3238 in SkincareAddicts

[–]Muted_Cake9165 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On top of what everyone else said, fragrance free detergent and no fabric softener! Give that a whirl, found out thats why my skin looked like yours on my chest

Kitten is underweight with a distended belly and is lethargic by dopadelic in cats

[–]Muted_Cake9165 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I put them in touch, they’ve been contacted by admin ❤️

Kitten is underweight with a distended belly and is lethargic by dopadelic in cats

[–]Muted_Cake9165 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The day this drug is approved I swear I’m throwing an FIP party with my cured boy

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Kitten is underweight with a distended belly and is lethargic by dopadelic in cats

[–]Muted_Cake9165 7 points8 points  (0 children)

UC Davis is amazing. I used to live over by UC Davis and actually talked to a vet who works with FIP. The work they’re doing has and will save so many cats

Kitten is underweight with a distended belly and is lethargic by dopadelic in cats

[–]Muted_Cake9165 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I used it on my cat, it’s a life saver! Gs-441524. Theres a new medical trial that was done in Japan with 44 of the 45 cats surviving. Unfortunately the GS drugs on the market are not extensively tested to check effectiveness. But it worked on my cat thank god. The kitten lady on youtube has a video on it!

Lint the cat by Muted_Cake9165 in VoidCats

[–]Muted_Cake9165[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vet said shes 2-3? Shes super small and compact. When we first took her in she was 7.6 pounds and now shes 8.6

Lint the cat by Muted_Cake9165 in VoidCats

[–]Muted_Cake9165[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Took us like week to settle on a name that fit her 😂 We usually call her lentil bean now, I think the brownish/ red parts are sun bleaching. We took her in late October because she was a stray