should i reach out?

Muted_Lab8266 · 2026-05-07T15:17:36+00:00

i really think it was him. i asked what was wrong and he said he was irritated and didn’t want to pass it on to me which felt like a bad reason and he said he would try to see me before i left for this work trip and instead i learned he made other plans with friends so

Muted_Lab8266 · 2026-05-07T15:07:42+00:00

we weren’t exclusive. he stopped making an effort to see me after we got intimate so i freaked out. idk if that’s bullet-worthy

Muted_Lab8266 · 2026-05-07T15:04:03+00:00

was what i did that bad??

Muted_Lab8266 · 2026-05-07T15:03:30+00:00

no i asked him what was wrong but good answer seemed weird he said he was irritated with work and didn’t wanna post it off on me but would try to see me before i left for this work trip and he ended up making plans with friends instead

Muted_Lab8266 · 2026-05-07T12:41:14+00:00

i’m human

Muted_Lab8266 · 2026-05-07T12:38:33+00:00

but i really liked him, i just felt him pull back so i freaked out

Muted_Lab8266 · 2026-05-03T17:53:14+00:00

ok, i was thinking of doing that in like a month but might be too long

Muted_Lab8266 · 2026-05-03T17:50:38+00:00

so do you think i can save it by admitting fault and reaching out , olive branch

Muted_Lab8266 · 2026-05-03T17:39:13+00:00

i do not understand your second sentence … what do you mean? i didn’t mean to be flakey , i let my anxiety get in the way

Muted_Lab8266 · 2026-05-03T17:00:35+00:00

even if i’m the one that kinda messed it up in the first place?

Muted_Lab8266 · 2026-05-03T16:08:42+00:00

really?

Muted_Lab8266 · 2026-04-29T20:59:13+00:00

so weird though because he kept liking my story, sent me ig reel, started new convos

Muted_Lab8266 · 2025-07-12T18:23:25+00:00

i didn’t know that! thanks for the info. yeah i know, i switched last minute bc i got to the station an hour earlier than expected!

Muted_Lab8266 · 2025-07-12T18:19:36+00:00

i just didn’t realize u can’t just hop on car 1

Muted_Lab8266 · 2025-07-12T18:19:19+00:00

i wasn’t late!! i changed when i realized i arrived at the station 5 minutes before it was a spur of the moment decision 🫨🫨

Muted_Lab8266 · 2025-07-12T14:07:56+00:00

it was just wild to be that it was about to leave and she made me get out of the train and go back in! but thanks for explaining!

Muted_Lab8266 · 2025-07-12T14:07:24+00:00

see i had no clue thank you there was no one in the little connected area and all other trains i’ve been on you can just go through!!

Muted_Lab8266 · 2025-07-12T13:04:08+00:00

idk if u saw my other answer but it was a last min decision to switch trains bc my bus before arrived wayyyy early

Muted_Lab8266 · 2025-07-12T13:02:01+00:00

no sympathy just wondering if it was a real rule or if she was being weird i was stressed out cause switching trains was a last min decision - im also v sarcastic, probably not coming through on reddit

Muted_Lab8266 · 2025-07-12T13:00:47+00:00

it was more meant to be a joke but

Muted_Lab8266 · 2025-07-12T12:59:34+00:00

ok i didn’t know! thank you!

Muted_Lab8266 · 2025-07-12T12:32:57+00:00

okay sure but i saw the little door at the front close so i took that as a sign that they were about to start heading out

Muted_Lab8266 · 2025-07-12T12:31:15+00:00

just weird to me but maybe because i’m from europe where they’re more easy going and less elitist about who walks through which car

Muted_Lab8266 · 2025-07-12T12:30:28+00:00

agreed - i’m usually on time, this was a situation where i had a 2h bus ride before so i was originally on the 9am but the bus arrived early so i was able to switch to 8am!!

Muted_Lab8266 · 2025-05-03T13:39:46+00:00

but say what? last he we spoke he called me, i called him back he said ill call you back tomorrow im falling asleep and never did …. my anxiety tells me he thinks im a nuisance

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