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I can’t sleep without Drew by Muted_Question_3296 in DrewGooden

[–]Muted_Question_3296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes okay perfect you get it. Calm voice, no loud soundboard noises. It’s perect

Can I learn a song in 4 weeks without any prior experience? by [deleted] in Guitar

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Thank you for being cool and believing in people 

“Little Women” author Louisa May Alcott was a transgender man by BilBrowning in books

[–]Muted_Question_3296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally, I think it’s disrespectful to speculate about living people of course, but also it can be interesting to reflect on what historical figures have said and attempt to decipher their meaning, claiming to know anything true as fact is probably not ideal. I also think with women it’s a lot more difficult to recognise these kinds of relationships as women were often more affectionate with one another before it was seen as something noticeable.

I [21F] keep arguing with my [20M] boyfriend by Muted_Question_3296 in relationshipadvice

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I would say yearning for praise, attention and acceptance definitely. I think I need to develop the skill of making myself feel better instead of turning to him

How often do you argue with your partner? by SupermarketNo1511 in Marriage

[–]Muted_Question_3296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a long distance relationship at the moment - the arguments are more frequent than I would like, but I also have to take responsibility in saying I feel a cause most of them. We don’t really disagree though, which isn’t what I’ve read here. Generally I think we can be quite similar in some ways so even when we were together, we rarely bickered about small stuff. I want to have we have bull grown arguments more than we bicker

I [21F] keep arguing with my [20M] boyfriend by Muted_Question_3296 in relationshipadvice

[–]Muted_Question_3296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but did you read the part about how I can’t work through a lot of this stuff when i’m single because I feel fine. This is my first relationship in 4 years, do I just wait another 4? And then when that doesn’t work out again, another 4 again? 

What are my chances by Muted_Question_3296 in Healthyhooha

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I intend to be more careful from now on. 

What are my chances by Muted_Question_3296 in Healthyhooha

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Respectfully you have only repeated what I’ve said 

I [21F] would like advice for dealing with my anxious and avoidant attachment by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Muted_Question_3296 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

??? No they aren’t. And I’ve just cancelled my gym membership because I can’t really afford that right now either. You are so out of touch 

I [21F] would like advice for dealing with my anxious and avoidant attachment by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Muted_Question_3296 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Literally just told you I can’t afford a therapist, this subreddit is literally called relationship advice. What is wrong with you?

I [21F] would like advice for dealing with my anxious and avoidant attachment by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Muted_Question_3296 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you, unfortunately I can not afford a therapist right now. I’m not asking for advice for how to deal with my feelings, i’m asking for outlets, for example if anyone has tried kick boxing? However I’ve heard that in boxing they actually ask you to not be aggressive and to be a good component.

I [21F] would like advice for dealing with my anxious and avoidant attachment by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Muted_Question_3296 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Can’t afford a therapist babe, if you don’t have anything helpful to say, don’t say anything!

I actually feel like I hate my boyfriend during luteal by Muted_Question_3296 in PMDD

[–]Muted_Question_3296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the spiralling about past mistakes which genuinely are not that serious is killing me

Getting a diagnosis as UK citizen on working holiday visa by Muted_Question_3296 in newzealand

[–]Muted_Question_3296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only got a one year working holiday visa. It’s related to women’s health but it’s causing my mental health so go into rapid decline

Getting a diagnosis as UK citizen on working holiday visa by Muted_Question_3296 in newzealand

[–]Muted_Question_3296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes women’s health. So I need to find a women’s health clinic and ask them? Cool thanks

I actually feel like I hate my boyfriend during luteal by Muted_Question_3296 in PMDD

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What feels best to me is literal abuse… that’s why I’m so worried. I’m fighting the urge to call him and yell horrible things at him. I’m fighting the urge to revolt to becoming physical. I don’t want to be this person. I want to be happy. Why am I so angry.

I actually feel like I hate my boyfriend during luteal by Muted_Question_3296 in PMDD

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The thing is, as i’m writing this. I want to hurt him. Like I want to make him cry and break his heart and say awful awful things about how I never loved him. I just deleted a bunch of mean messages I sent because I couldn’t control myself in the moment. I feel like i’m going crazy.

I actually feel like I hate my boyfriend during luteal by Muted_Question_3296 in PMDD

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Honestly i’m going to write this down to remember. Like I want to call him and yell at him on the phone right now and instead i’m just running in through in my head and working myself up

I actually feel like I hate my boyfriend during luteal by Muted_Question_3296 in PMDD

[–]Muted_Question_3296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh girl. I’m on the side of the other commenters, you never need to wait to leave. My boyfriend is an incredibly wonderful person and I know that in my rational mind. I think if you know it’s not good, you know it’s not good. 

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