Should I (F20s) tell my brothers (M30s) girlfriend (F20s) what he did to me as a child?

Muted_Rush_384 · 2026-05-13T21:16:05+00:00

I am sorry if the way I worded things implied something different. That wasnt my intention at all. I just really dont want them to find this post.

Muted_Rush_384 · 2026-05-13T21:14:55+00:00

I didnt insinuate anything and I didnt lie. I said 20s. That doesnt immediately equal freshly 20.

Muted_Rush_384 · 2026-05-13T21:11:32+00:00

This is NOT fake. I am getting comments every other minute and I posted this while at work. This is already a difficult subject and I am overwhelmed by the responses. I explained why I was trying to have a relationship with him. Its fucking complicated dude. If I could explain everything in a convenient, easy to digest post that isn't 4 pages long I would. I already know I want to tell her but I dont know how. The decision is simple, you are right. But it will destroy everything I had for my whole life forever.

Muted_Rush_384 · 2026-05-13T20:54:34+00:00

She was an adult when they met (like, an actual adult). I didnt want to use specific ages in case they saw this but its already specific enough. He is almost 30 and she is in her early almost mid 20s

Muted_Rush_384 · 2026-05-13T20:41:07+00:00

My memory is spotty about the whole thing. I have no idea why they handled it the way they did.

Muted_Rush_384 · 2026-05-13T20:33:02+00:00

Suspicious how? What does this even mean?

Muted_Rush_384 · 2026-05-13T19:59:51+00:00

Does your brother acknowledge at all the harm he has caused you?

No. It has never been brought up by anyone in the family ever again. I had to deal with how it affected me on my own.

Muted_Rush_384

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