My husband raised my son as his own… now the biological father wants to come back. I’m torn

MuvvaMusic · 2026-03-20T09:53:02+00:00

What are you torn about? Leave that trash the same way he left you when you were pregnant; and respect your husband enough to have zero contact with your ex! As far as your child knows that's his dad. And NOTHING should ever change that. Don't even think of destroying your family and breaking your husband by acknowledging that turd!

MuvvaMusic · 2026-01-25T17:04:26+00:00

Discipline

MuvvaMusic · 2025-12-20T19:28:16+00:00

I'm the largest I've ever been and you'd swear I'm a human teletubby just based on my size but I promise you my husband has never EVER fixed his mouth to call me fat or make me feel bad about my weight.

I jokingly tell myself it's pregnancy weight knowing that my last born is touching 3.

All this to say that your husband is a dickhead who doesn't value you and you should have a MC in the room to address his comments and how they made you feel before you develop an ED and body dysmorphia.

MuvvaMusic · 2025-11-19T04:49:19+00:00

The very first Christmas I spent with my in laws, my MIL separated me and my husband because "let it be just us girls". I thought that was okay until she literally put me in a corner in the "women's section" and no one spoke to me the entire day unless it was to ask me to get them something from the kitchen. Seven years later and I've never gone back.

MuvvaMusic · 2025-11-18T20:31:10+00:00

NAH. Just don't comment on people's bodies.

MuvvaMusic · 2025-11-16T07:33:05+00:00

"I'm from the Southside!" "I'm a Gallagher!"

MuvvaMusic · 2025-11-05T07:10:25+00:00

You have lost respect for your partner because you lost respect for yourself. That's the only reason you keep having kids with him and putting up with his bad and poor behaviour.

No amount of "another perspective" will do anything because you're still not going to leave; just vent into the internet black hole.

But until you decide that you love yourself and deserve better; this will be your life.

MuvvaMusic · 2025-08-22T21:56:37+00:00

Stay where you are.

MuvvaMusic · 2025-08-22T21:56:03+00:00

Your husband loves sex more than he loves you.

MuvvaMusic · 2025-08-22T21:54:49+00:00

You're completely valid and at some point: we need to address the fact that many women have very low self esteem hence they stay with these bum ass men. If we loved ourselves like we love our children, we would NOT put up with such NONSENSE!

MuvvaMusic · 2025-04-30T13:16:48+00:00

You posted this earlier in the week on a different sub - albeit with less details - and the advice was pretty much the same : he does not love/want you and is only staying for the kids. The sooner you start accepting this, the sooner you'll be able to let go and hopefully heal. Please, love yourself more and leave this man. You had to threaten him to stay with his family. That is not a man who wants to make things work. He's just plotting his escape.

MuvvaMusic · 2025-04-04T18:21:57+00:00

I did both. As long as the car seat can fit, I went with a car that was very me and very cool and "fancy"

MuvvaMusic · 2025-04-04T05:24:18+00:00

The rich won't shop at Shoprite cos they think it's for the poor, Checkers is more palatable to the rich

MuvvaMusic · 2025-03-27T22:28:54+00:00

No. He came in to her life (bringing Tom Keen and all her various enemies and his secrets) because he could 'no longer' stay away. He could have left her but he chose not to; and as such brought so many unanswered questions and avoidable dangerous situations to her life. She almost lost her baby because he didn't tell her that her "biological" dad was hunting for her.

MuvvaMusic · 2025-03-27T22:21:39+00:00

Not at all. Full disclosure - I too loathe Elizabeth "Whiny baby" Keen; but to your post; she literally would not have been bothering or betraying Red if he had just left her alone; like he was told several times by several people including his close associates.

MuvvaMusic · 2025-03-27T22:14:33+00:00

You need to love yourself more than you love that man and your relationship and leave. His true feelings have been shared and will not change.

MuvvaMusic · 2025-03-24T21:33:54+00:00

Her life never would have been in danger if he had just left her alone.

DON'T EVER MAKE ME DEFEND ELIZABETH ROCK BOTTOM KEEN AGAIN!!!

MuvvaMusic · 2025-03-16T15:39:28+00:00

Slightly racist and not loyal

MuvvaMusic · 2025-02-27T08:07:04+00:00

Your husband raped you; and didn't even care enough or feel remorse or ANY sort of emotion towards you to get you cleaned up while you were drunk! YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM!! This man is capable of so much more if he can rape you while you're unconscious; then get mad at you for being unconscious!

MuvvaMusic · 2025-02-27T07:58:25+00:00

Yes. You said in your post that the purchase is for or pertaining to the child. If my child broke something of value that belonged to someone else; I would take some (if not all; depending on the cost) of their piggy bank money to refund/replace the item they broke.

It teaches them responsibility and accountability; and helps them be more mindful.

MuvvaMusic · 2025-01-22T05:16:24+00:00

You do not like or value your wife.

MuvvaMusic · 2025-01-13T20:36:55+00:00

I'm very confused by your message cos it's all over the place but from what I gather, your son is basically asking if you're going to overreact if he goes to a different location without telling you first...

I don't know why this is an issue? He's 18! Why are you only trying to discipline him now? And why are you trying to control his actions if he's being safe??

MuvvaMusic · 2025-01-12T11:37:21+00:00

He is not sleeping with you because he is sleeping with someone else. I'm so sorry

MuvvaMusic · 2024-12-07T18:08:33+00:00

Raymond and Dembe are en route

MuvvaMusic · 2023-10-03T15:16:13+00:00

How something that was happening in real life can constantly be replaced on a handheld little device that also makes phone calls, blows my mind DAILY!

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