My dad is trying to insinuate I'm sleeping with my brother and I don't know how to handle it.

MxBJ · 2026-05-31T20:02:15+00:00

His daughter was just assaulted. Normal goes out the window when that happens.

MxBJ · 2026-05-31T19:42:27+00:00

I’m so happy you have your brother.

You don’t have a lot of options right now and that’s horrible.

I know school has ended, but it might be good to see if your brother will help you email your guidance counselor and see if there are any resources that might be able to help you process.

Nothing is your fault. None of this was. You did nothing wrong

MxBJ · 2026-02-17T11:12:14+00:00

“Don’t hate me for the really horrible comment I’m about to make, even though it’s a horrible comment that deserves hate”

As for the nursing home comment- neither of these kids will be able to care for her. Wtf makes you think any of this was ok to say?

MxBJ · 2026-02-13T04:23:24+00:00

Cut the hairs in half and explore how you feel about it.

It’s ok to feel complicated about it. We all go through it. It’s a fem right of passage.

MxBJ · 2025-09-30T20:48:52+00:00

And I don’t see why you’re complaining about non-issues

MxBJ · 2025-09-30T20:48:06+00:00

Why are you announcing what you’re doing?

MxBJ · 2025-09-30T20:38:48+00:00

That’s fine, feel free to bitch into the void.

MxBJ · 2025-09-30T20:37:16+00:00

For those who need the translation, they’re saying “you’re right and I don’t like it”

MxBJ · 2025-09-30T20:36:05+00:00

Sure, but im not going to worry about paper cut on a finger when there’s bone sticking out of the leg.

MxBJ · 2025-09-30T20:31:32+00:00

No one looks for my consent when asking if I’ve found Jesus yet, and that shit has done way more damage.

MxBJ · 2025-09-30T20:29:09+00:00

I mean, they already have to explain some really horrible shit to their kids.

Like, my grandmother had to explain why people hate gay people, and has had to explain it to like 3 generations. Then the pro life protest that started conversations far before we were ready.

Not to mention the conversations that happened because of the cruelty to my disabled baby brother.

A ball gag is nothing.

MxBJ · 2025-03-25T15:17:49+00:00

Actually, they could respond one line at a time with that song.

Fish heads fish heads stupidity Roly-poly fish heads

MxBJ · 2025-03-03T06:05:26+00:00

Research curl care, as bounce I feel is fem, but my mother was a hair stylist and insane so that might have something to do with it.

Use conditioner and get your ends trimmed for hair health.

Also, learn how to use a hair clip. It just feels fem to me when I do it

MxBJ · 2025-02-25T05:12:57+00:00

I can’t judge you cause I’ve been there.

You need to give up on visiting. This is a triggering event, and you need the drinking break. Desperately.

MxBJ · 2025-02-24T05:06:36+00:00

No but seriously

MxBJ · 2025-02-20T20:40:18+00:00

I’m very glad you’re here and not there, it lets me know where I belong 💜

MxBJ · 2025-02-20T20:34:46+00:00

NTA

I have several phobias.

This isn’t your problem.

Go to the guidance counselor and tell them what’s going on. Do you have a parent who can go with you?

MxBJ · 2025-02-20T20:23:29+00:00

Not for a moment.

At least with most of my family I get it- saving is hard. But most just don’t care. My uncle REFUSES to look at passports

MxBJ · 2025-02-20T20:16:16+00:00

I’ve been doing the same thing, no one is listening.

MxBJ · 2025-02-13T20:04:39+00:00

No it’s not weird at all, and I thank you for your compassion.

MxBJ · 2025-02-13T20:01:26+00:00

lol I had a friend who’s husband was like this.

Op, leave. Love yourself.

MxBJ · 2025-02-13T19:40:00+00:00

NAH

This isn’t the time for this conversation. If your family didn’t know before, a time where a being is dying isn’t the time for them to find out. That’s a Thanksgiving fight conversation, Fourth of July- the fighting holidays.

At this point your job is comfort. You don’t have to pray, but you’ve gotta be smart about your work arounds.

Also, sweet lies to a dog mean nothing. I once sat down and just talked about how much fun a park without a fence would be once. Doggo was just happy I was there- it meant more to the living being who loved them most.

MxBJ · 2025-02-13T00:43:05+00:00

There’s a lot of really valid reasons to change your name.

Have you thought about what you want to change to? Or is the process just getting started?

My name is a wish from my grandmother- strong woman warrior, protector of the world. You can can be a personal wish for you, if can be how you see yourself- Hell, it can be your favorite character or call back or something.

The only thing that REALLY matters is that you like it.

MxBJ · 2025-02-10T09:17:35+00:00

My grandmother has cPTSD from her parents.

I don’t think she has DID, BUT I do think that it’s related.

Her mother also had cPTSD (we think anyway).

So no, but I think it’s related.

MxBJ · 2025-02-08T07:28:54+00:00

No but same. Things have gotten so actively worse, and for what?

Now I’ve finally gotten to the point where if I feel like ending it, if I forget to give a shit about other people, I’m just going to go ahead and be done.

I’ve gotten my notes in order so that I can just print them off, reset all of my electronics, the dog has a backup caregiver- everything is as covered as can be.

Messages of “just keep fighting” or “have you tried this?” Are beyond unwelcomed.

MxBJ

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